Yes this would of worked, but sadly I was completely taken by shock so I reacted quite differently. It's one thing knowing sometimes up, and a complete other thinking you've met someone else whose different for it to happen again.

Anyway it's the morning now, so I'm going to text him and just say I've slept on it, and I think just stayin friends is a good idea. Really I should just walk away completely, but I like him too much

dont even show emotions girl. just say something like "oh it's cool, thanks for the heads up "
if this early in the relationship he chickens out bc of excuses, then he's really not worth of being in a relationship at all. guys like that like to sleep around.. trust me, been there done that, got the t-shirt.

Such a shame. I had that too. It's hard but embrace it well. There IS someone there who will love you. It seems hard, but think about it. THEIR loss not yours. You're weeding out the trash till perfection comes along. And when it does you will know. It'll feel different.

Is it so hard for him to give you what you need? You want his heart to bleed—that's all you're asking for. Where is his heart?

Yeah my first boyfriend did, I think it's because I wasn't ready for one maybe..but we were besties after that.
and my 2nd boyfriend did also because I took 1 ugly picture...he lived in Sydney that one.

Pretty much every guy i've been with, but males are ****ing users.

Don't press for the truth he wont tell you anyway i wouldn't remain friends with someone who can't be straight up with me. Its always best to tell the truth instead of ***** footing around.

I had that happen to me too we were dating for a few months and he dissappeared. Some will pull that ******** line lets be friends when they don't mean it which is why i cut them off and say no thanks.
9 times out of 10 it isn't true and you will no longer hear from them.

I found a wonderful guy and i know you will too.

Awww, that sucks. I get what he's saying though. I've been there. You really like someone but sometimes it's really just not the right time for a relationship.

OP.....

A head on, in person approach works wonders.


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Yeah, and he thought he could remain invisible forever until I snatched his cloak earlier this year. He stopped texting me last summer after we made plans to go somewhere. My whole summer was ****ed up after that. I didn't know where he lived and it felt like I hit a dead end after that.

Six months later during the second semester (the current one), I clocked his ass. It took some faith and willpower, but I caught up with him. We've been hanging out ever since, like his disappearance never happened. I feel that he'll do it again after this semester, but I know where he lives now.


We weren't boyfriends, but we might as well have been. Judging by the way he reacted after I cornered him, he knew he did wrong and he knew there was something between us.

Right. Guys who talk fluff are always so full of it. Clearly he just wants to play the field and is trying to let you know in a delicate way in case he decides to stick around after all. I wouldn't worry about those queens talking trash, if he forms an opinion on you based on someone else's perceptions clearly he just isn't very bright.

That's why it's always good to just keep it slow and not get high hopes until later. There is always a tricky "game" at first and it's easy to slip up if you present yourself as vulnerable from the start. But ultimately it's up to you! Just do what feels natural tbh.

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