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Originally posted by Javan
And that's why I said it was an inherited culture. And some privileges that you take away from a child wouldn't even effect them and their future decisions. Black people don't have time to be repeating themselves and reinstilling morals and ethics via conversation. Because that's a long ting, and if you're black child puts a foot wrong in the real world. He goes to prison.That's why people beat their children because it communicates faster, children don't value their possessions as much and cling to the next best thing easily and their last toy is forgotten.
So instead you have the choice of taking away needs. Which my Mum did when she stopped beating me. She would make me go a night without dinner. To each their own. Shouldn't disdain people for beating their kids.
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What makes a black person different from a person of a different race that does have time?
& that's precisely why I think beating your children is the lazy way out. You just use a quick little reflex to make your child habitually AFRAID to do whatever they did again instead of actually taking the TIME to communication with them or use a different approach so that they know exactly why what they did was wrong and why they shouldn't do it.
but who is to say not beating your black children makes them more likely to go to prison?
not disciplining a child whatsoever, I would agree they are more likely to live a hard knock life, but not beating your kids doesn't inherently mean they won't be disciplined. And if you've been disciplining your child consistently and carefully (whether through beating or not), by the time they even get to an age where they could end up in jail, they SHOULD have a moral compass and know right from wrong.
I'm not telling anyone they are WRONG for beating their kids but I'm arguing against those of you who act like beating children is the only effective form of discipline, it's actually one that backfires in way too many cases because a lot of people don't have an adequate level of restraint and it makes it easier for those individuals to take it entirely too far, like this POS in the video. When you start saying wailing on your children with a hand or a belt is a good thing, at what point does it become not okay to some people? at what point does it become abuse?
