My old ass grandma just spent the whole car ride home talking about how the world is letting Satan win and gay marriage is gonna be the end of the world and blah blah blah, cant wait for her old ass to just move on to pasture.

Honestly they both sound understanding...

It could be worse.
My parents are homophobic.
My dad would disown.
My mom would kill.
Try living in a household like that.

To be honest. I wanna tell my mom when she's on her death bed. I'm just really scared. She asked me once cause she saw a conversation with my bestfriend and he said he loves me and called me babe. But I denied and I've been trying to show off my "girlfriend" to her lately.

Yeah my dad says things about the gays that I feel he will regret when he finds out about me. Who knows though. I'd rather not go all out because I haven't been in anything serious with another guy which makes my sexuality irrelevant.

Haha I never said my parents arent understanding :P. My mom would be fine and my dad would probably be fine as well and I realize that some people have parents like yours So I wish you and your parents the best