Well the other day i took my friend chris and his son out for the little boys bday. Before he was supposed to be dropped off at his moms house. Being it was his bday we both picked up a nice little present for him and took him out. Now it was his bday so i am like it not a big deal for him to have a slice of cake. So i got a slice for him.
Now the mom has this rule in their house that he not allowed to have sweets before he comes over here. She starts yelling at me and saying we have a rule in the house and he not allowed any sweets before he comes here. My friend chris was like yeah it not a big deal and she starts raising her voice saying chris knows the rules. blah blah blah. I kindly say it is his freaking bday and it not a big deal for him to have some cake. I then kindly turn to his son and say please tell you mom to stop yellling at me.
He turns to his mom and says mom stop yelling at saba she was really nice to me on my bday and she even got me a present. The mom comes off looking lik a ass and says nothing. I understand that she is his mom and very protective of him. What was i really out of line for what i did?
LMAO. She's a freak. It's his damn B'day. And it seems to me that she doesn't even care for her son's birthday. If i were you, I'd tell her to Shut The F (because of the presence of her son) Up, kiss the boy and go.
Children deserve cake while they still have their fast metabolisms!! Especially on the kid's birthday.
I think you did great by not yelling and getting the child to help you. And as for the mother: Well, good luck to her when that child becomes a teenager and disobeys every command because of her strict house rules.
That explains it. Divorce sucks the life out of women. She is just bitter that she has to raise her children alone. You weren't out of line but she is not to blame, it's all the father's fault.
LMAO. She's a freak. It's his damn B'day. And it seems to me that she doesn't even care for her son's birthday. If i were you, I'd tell her to Shut The F (because of the presence of her son) Up, kiss the boy and go.
haha i so wanted to do that just to piss her off, yet i watched my launguage becase the kid was around us when it all happend.
That explains it. Divorce sucks the life out of women. She is just bitter that she has to raise her children alone. You weren't out of line but she is not to blame, it's all the father's fault.
He his primary custody of the son. She only seems him on the weekend and that it During the divorce since she knew that he adores her kid he got the boy. Divorce imo is hard on both sides of the party not just the women. It not like the dad is a dead beat father and does not take care of his kid(ala kfed). He is a damn good father and he takes good care of him
Well, if she does have rules about "sweets" then you should have obeyed them. However, you weren't informed about the rules until after the incident (correct?) so I don't really blame you. It's a damn slice of cake; she'll get over it.
That kid should of gotten an ass wopping he damn well knew THE RULES.
(at his age) my mother would have whooped my ass if I did some slick **** like that, but I guess it would have been worthed it if I was being deprived of sweets all my life
(at his age) my mother would have whooped my ass if I did some slick **** like that, but I guess it would have been worthed it if I was being deprived of sweets all my life
how do we know the father have the same "rules"? if he does then you have a point (: How old is he?
Well, if she does have rules about "sweets" then you should have obeyed them. However, you weren't informed about the rules until after the incident (correct?) so I don't really blame you. It's a damn slice of cake; she'll get over it.
Yeah i did not know about her strict rules till after the fact. Either way the kid is 8 and as i said if the mom had a issue with him having a slice of cake on his fing bday she could have talked to me like a adult about it.
Yeah i did not know about her strict rules till after the fact. Either way the kid is 8 and as i said if the mom had a issue with him having a slice of cake on his fing bday she could have talked to me like a adult about it.
You are absolutely correct, but you can't fault her for being mad about a rule she has implemented in her household. But, she could have handled it better though. These type of situations are tough.
