okay so in another thread someone asking about T Swift lyrics which relates to us and yeah it got me thinking of a time (you can go read the post)

and yeah so gurls, have you had your heartbroken?
how did you deal with it?
and hows its right now?

with me i crumbled and shut the world out and sat in my room looking at pictures crying all day
i didnt even have the strength to move cos i wasnt eating or drinking like i had to go hospital and everything but it didnt help and i was real close to getting put like into a mental house and such
but i mean im good now just the feelings still there and dont think ill ever find another love like him

hell yea

yes it ****ing sucks

Yeah.................. It hurts so bad.

**** yes I have....

Yes, several times. But the second relationship I was in had a bigger emotional toll on me than any of the others. It led to a dark, sad time in my life. Heartbreak is the worst of human emotions.

yes

it gets better with age hon

same. the worst moment of my life is what happened that day and the few weeks that came.

YES

When I was 14 It sucked, but I'm over it. It definitely left some damage though, I'm much more wary around people now.

it REALLY is

I did and it really took its toll on me.
It started last september when I met this really wonderful person. Added her on bbm but she rarely replied to me ; she had so many friends and I want to really tell her how I felt but she wasn't even there.
Afterwards it was like a dark depression era that has faded almost last february and I got the solution for you: start to go to a GYM, its not east at first and you'll have to drag yourself to go every day but it really helps taking away the heartbreaking and the depression

Yup, it hurts so bad. I felt so empty and hollow after.

Yeah but he regretted it later.

I guess not, but I suppose I'm setting myself up for it by being unable to give up on my current "crush".

I don't think to the extent most people have cause I'm still young but I've definitely felt some heartbreak.

No, but I've broken a few.

No, I've never really been in love.

When he broke my heart last summer, all I could do was mope around in the heat. If I wasn't moving, I thought about him. Lots of walks to random places occurred that summer. The things that hurt me the most were not knowing what caused his sudden disappearance, what I did wrong, why he disappeared after he said how much he hated it when people did that to him. People are always leaving me, so I think that was what affected me the most.

There were mornings when I'd wake up and just gaze at my phone, waiting for a text from him. I'd be in bed for about an hour before I said **** it. I'd find myself crying at the most random times in the most inappropriate places. I was so deeply hurt and I'd never experienced a hurt like that, the kind you feel when you're actually in love, I guess. Everything and everyone were so ****ing bland to me. I wanted nothing to do with anyone.

I'd drift away in walks and music everyday. After awhile the walks didn't do anything for me. I couldn't even enjoy movies anymore; I'd be distracted by the smallest things. Music and time were really all that kept me company.

There were times when I'd read our text history, hoping that a new message would be there at the bottom when I got there. It never happened. I started getting over him by September, but I had a relapse in October when I found out that he was in the next building over from the main building on campus at school. He never once came over to see me.


Then it happened...


I saw him waiting for a class one day. The next day I finally caught him alone. To make a long story short [Longer Version] , I told him what he did to me and he basically gave me a "it's not you, it's me" explanation. Anyway, we've been hanging out ever since then.

It's going to happen again, but I'm prepared this time.

Yes it sucks when she doesn't want you back. And you had to work up the courage for so long.