Both my parents asked me in separate times I told them.They were accepting at first then they got back in the church and have become extremely radical. We never talk about it. I think they get over it when i marry me a rich man and I buy them anew house.
I didn't make an "announcement" like some corny *******. I just had hickeys on my neck one day and when someone asked I told them the name of the boy who did it. It got around quick and I just answered honestly tbh.
I would never do that now though. When I'm affectionate with someone now.....I do so in a way that has class to it.
My dad asked me once, but I said no because I wasn't ready
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this p much..
I first told my dad. My mom and I got into a BIG fight, and it was very chaotic..my sister suggested I told "the truth" when my dad took me for a car ride to talk, and I told him...did not go very well
Got into another fight a while later with my mother, and I just flat out told her I was gay she said she didn't approve but she handled it better than my father nonetheless, and my mother is one who's more religious.
Now, both of my parents are in denial still, thinking I'm straight - talking to me about women, my "future" wife, etc.
it was messy, and I won't dare tell the rest of my family that would be a mess
awww, that's sad
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I got drunk, text my whole family, and then turned my phone off.
I could try that in the future
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Mum caught the gay ****. The machine FROZE on the *** shot. Awkward was NOT the word.
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Kinda. The PC froze just before she came upstairs, I tried to hit the reset button but missed and hit my hand and by the time I stopped swearing she came in (I was desperate lmao ) and well...that was it. My dad came upstairs (cause she called him) and he just walked back out and slammed the door. And then she left...and **** went downE.
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I told my friend I was gonna watch the Grammys one weekend and they asked me if I was gay.
I said yes
I was 15. After hanging out for the first time with people that were supportive to me as I am (you guys know that the so-called closet is like an obscure and cold cell full of rats), I got brave and then I told my mother when I got home.
I just told my mom, and she probably told the whole damn world. But she doesn't believe me. She always talks about how cute I would look with my friends.
It was 2 summers ago.. I was back home, doing long distance with my then boyfriend. After a month, my mom kept asking me what was wrong one day, because I wasn't happy. She was so persistent that I decided I would tell her. I started balling before I could tell her I was gay, where we both started crying. She told me how god wasn't acceptive of it and how I would go to hell for it, but that she can never stop loving her kid and from then on out would be praying every night for god to take her to hell instead so I can go to heaven. Those words will forever stay with me. I will never forget how much my mom loves me.. I am tearing up right now about it.
I hope that one day my mom will realize that it is ok with being gay. I try and let her ask me stuff, and she has started to accept and get curious about it. It's hard being in a long distance with my mom, but she does well.
I will send her prayers for bobby soon enough for her to watch.. maybe that could change her perspective
edit: my dad doesn't know.. me and my mom think he will disown me when i come out. And he is helping a lot with tuition so I need the help.. I hope he doesn't disown me, but if he does, I don't think it will be a big deal!
She told me how god wasn't acceptive of it and how I would go to hell for it, but that she can never stop loving her kid and from then on out would be praying every night for god to take her to hell instead so I can go to heaven. Those words will forever stay with me. I will never forget how much my mom loves me.. I am tearing up right now about it.
that would be a mess
) and well...that was it. My dad came upstairs (cause she called him) and he just walked back out and slammed the door. And then she left...and **** went downE.
