Discussion: Why Are Gay Guys So Bitchy? - Page 4

Eaten By Lions

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Originally posted by Midnight

You must be interacting with some straight up queens.

tbh.

There are some messy ass queens out there. Same way there are douche bag straight boys, and mean girls. You're better of without them. If someone who is supposed to be your friend stops talking to you because of what other people say, just let it go. They clearly need validation.

DripDrip

Its a part of the gay community, some of them are into the whole "clique" and being bitchey and snobby and everything being one big episode on Bravo TV. They have to establish this high-school esque way of things. Not every gay person you meet is like that though, you just have to know who to hang around with and who not too.

Yourfavefan

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Originally posted by JeremyALD

Very true - especially the bolded part, sometimes they go twice a week and we only have one gay club in our city.

Problem is I work 40 hours a week in a business which hardly hires new staff - university would be great to meet new people, but I've already finished and at that stage I was not openly gay

hmmm... I would say a business would be another good setting, but if you haven't found anyone there yet, I have no clue... Maybe you can try and get some organisation for gays? other then that, honestly, hit gay hot spots that aren't bars/clubs and be forward..

It's hard to find nice gay friends for sure... but they always help.. go with that in mind over a relationship!

Mhs90

It's always the flams and glams. They got some loose screws

Haunter

I think it's a defensive thing, so use being picked on and ridiculed they come off bitchy before it happens.

Arking

There are messy people in all walks of life. Why are straight men so physically aggressive but so defensive about their manhood? Why are straight women so catty with each other but deferential to men? Why do lesbians blah blah blah~

TrashyNavy

agree 100%

UFO

They can finally unleash their inner estrogen.

Sláy

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Originally posted by Midnight

A bag of dust would've been thrown their way.

I like it though...when you get some fineness grinding with you...they stay PRESSEDt, and are SEETHING

It's like being in an old women's club, no one does anything but watch and judge.

SLAYANNA NAVY

I fell out with two friends a couple of weeks ago because of this. Im not here for all the drama n the overdramatics they was bringing to me.

Pecinta Mariah

I am not
oh wait I'm straight

Beethoven

It's just the raging Queens.

ifyouseekLEM

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Originally posted by JeremyALD

Seriously, I just don't understand. I'm probably stereotyping, but 96% of the gay guys I have met are so clicky. They have their little groups and occasionally let others in. They often date each other too - but yet when you join their group (they will go out of their way to make your life miserable, if you do something wrong). I can never meet someone new in a gay club without them evidently knowing one of these bitches - and then they talk **** about me. I was in there group - until I was completely axed - because one of them asked me out and I asked if we could keep it to friends. They have virtually ruined every gay relationship I've had since then.

Case in point - I met a new guy who had just come here. We got along well - had a couple of dates. Everything was perfect. Then he suddenly met these guys - and without us ever meeting again he now ignores me completely. They constantly take pics with him and rub it in my face.

And what the **** is up with fake hugs? Don't hug me if you don't actually like me. They always ****ing hug me, yet they treat me like ****. Over it.

A little stereotype-ish, but I'd be lying if I didn't say I was going through something slightly similar.

Versace

Because they can

Princedele21

Because they think they are 'DIVAS' or 'Girls'.

mantanqin

50% agree.
Some of their words are too mean to hear.