Eh I'm definitely not straight acting unless I'm really exhausted. I'm in the middle for the most part. I used to be more on the feminine side, now I have attributes of both. Definitely don't have the gay voice though My voice has always been really deep and straight guy-esque.
No, I definitely do not fit into the traditional masculine role.
I've had mixed responses. Some people didn't know I was gay until I told them, yet others just assumed I was gay (these were typically hyper masculine guys). Likewise, a lot of my friends say that I have a "subtle flamboyance".
I'd say I have more masculine traits. My family background (Military), upbringing and who I associate myself with just won't allow me to be a raging queen. Not to say being more effeminate is a negative thing, be who you are ect...But I'd be lying if I said I didn't have some fem in me, I am gay after all.