With the rise of gay masculinity and their constant war sexism saying "They give a bad rep to the gay community".. Is it now unpopular to be feminine?

Hasn't it always been like that??

definitely, if you couldnt already tell by the way people are on this site. i dont know why though, since they are the most prominent members of the gay community.

Now? I thought that it's always been that way

im pretty feminine so wtf? and most of the gay CUMmunity is full of feminine gays?

Yeah, unfortunately. Gays can be so hypocritical/judgmental towards their own.

I've always disliked queens. Some are fun though, I just wouldn't want to be seen in public with them

It always has been. It gives a bad rep to gay people.

Gays are full of self hate.

Only to those who are ignorant and aren't comforatable enough with themselves, to allow others to live their lives without judgment

Only the ones full of self hate think that.

There is nothing wrong with being feminine, it is when act like a complete and total jackass that pisses people off. That or when you try to dress like Lady Gaga in public, nobody wants to see it.

and there you go.

There are many people on the gay community struggles a lot with themself and trying to be accept.
Because things dont go the way they want they ended up kinda being "bullies" around the internet or between the gays.
Is sad for sure but theres not much to do about that

I don't hate feminine gay men.

I just hate when they're obnoxious with their femininity.

Basically

I agree, fem-bashing gives us a bad reputation.

Yes.

If I'm gay, I'm wanting to have sex with a guy.
Not a pseudo-female.
Get ya act together feminine gays.

(and by feminine I mean JDA from American Idol, not guys with a "lisp.")