Celeb News: Frank O. Opens up about Coming Out - Page 3

BeyOcean

Quote:

Originally posted by livethemusic

i don't say he is gay, i say he is ashamed of what he is.

He was ashamed of his name and he changed it.
He is ashamed of his sexuality, and he says he does not believe in labels.
Somewhere deep in himself, frank ocean must be ashamed of being black.
I think his general problem is being ashamed of what he is.

Why would he need to be ashamed of his sexuality? Not everyone puts a label on their sexuality. Like I told my good sis Stepfon, people get too caught up in labels, it's more about having a connection with the person rather than focused on what sex they are. It's just human nature.

And besides. He wouldn't have put that letter out if he was ashamed of his sexuality.

eli's_rhythm

Quote:

Originally posted by livethemusic

i don't say he is gay, i say he is ashamed of what he is.

He was ashamed of his name and he changed it.
He is ashamed of his sexuality, and he says he does not believe in labels.
Somewhere deep in himself, frank ocean must be ashamed of being black.
I think his general problem is being ashamed of what he is.

Please stop.

Especially with the last part.

And even if he is just afraid to label his sexuality (and wrongly shaming people for labeling their own). So? That's his personal issue. He can do it on his own time. You shouldn't be judging him for it. Labeling can be scary. It makes that aspect of you seem absolute and very open to scrutiny. It's okay if he doesn't want that kind of attention yet. Homophobic people are still out there--he has his reasons to stay half-closeted.

liferekindled

Somebody sounds mad up in this thread!

IDRAG4MJ

interesting

IVY

Quote:

GQ: So do you consider yourself bisexual?
Frank Ocean: You can move to the next question. I’ll respectfully say that life is dynamic and comes along with dynamic experiences, and the same sentiment that I have towards genres of music, I have towards a lot of labels and boxes and ****. I’m in this business to be creative—I’ll even diminish it and say to be a content provider. One of the pieces of content that I’m for **** sure not giving is **** videos. I’m not a centerfold. I’m not trying to sell you sex. People should pay attention to that in the letter: I didn’t need to label it for it to have impact. Because people realize everything that I say is so relatable, because when you’re talking about romantic love, both sides in all scenarios feel the same ****. As a writer, as a creator, I’m giving you my experiences. But just take what I give you. You ain’t got to pry beyond that. I’m giving you what I feel like you can feel. The other ****, you can’t feel. You can’t feel a box. You can’t feel a label. Don’t get caught up in that ****. There’s so much something in life. Don’t get caught up in the nothing. That **** is nothing, you know? It’s nothing. Vanish the fear.

He's so gay without any doubt, I know it's his personal life and it's no one's freakin business but he kinda opened the door when he wrote that letter.

Vin

Reading so many lies, but I'll let it go.

...Vin

DoubleK

Is he bi or gay

He's never clear

Stepfon

Why do you all care? Isn't he sleeping with you all? Is he inviting you over for a late nightcap? While it's fun to engage in playful discussion about Frank here with you all, Frank is an ARTIST first and that's what he wants to be known for, I see the good sis BeyOcean is speaking nothing but the truth, as usual.