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Originally posted by The Knowledge
some of the answers in this thread are just...
My brother is probably considered what y'all are looking for deep down. He's tall, muscular, straight, quite nice & very funny. But once you get to know him he is needy as **** (no shade just truth). The funny thing is when y'all write 'i want muscular gay man with a straight man's personality' you don't realise that you're cutting out 99.9% of the gay and straight population. And having such rigid standards for men will lead to much disappointment and many lonely nights. Muscles and stiff mannerisms only go so far in a relationship, and every Brad Pitt has their flaws...I'm just saying...
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Yaas tell it like it is
Like i said earlier of course you would have to be attracted to said person but people go way overboard.
I can't tell you how many times i have seen posts (not necessarily on atrl but other places)
where their ideal guy would have spiked hair must have a certain eye color must be white must have a certain build. etc etc and yet he wonders why he's single.
I refuse to be picky like that, i am not one to say how to run your dating life but just be prepared to face a much smaller dating pool.
At the end of the day personality does matter despite what people say cause no one will want to be with someone who's "perfect" but an ugly person on the inside.
You can't cuddle with someone like that you can't tell them your s***** day at work and he would give you a massage.
You can't have a long lasting relationship at all with a nasty person.
So while you are entitled to like what you like pay attention to what matters most.