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In the case of divorce, women are often given unfair advantages in court rulings, and in the majority of divorce cases involving custodial rights and the like, judges often rule in favor of women rather than men.
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This is a hollow victory for divorced mothers considering what marriage and divorce do to women in general. In ideal cases, married men are able to accrue years of uninterrupted working experience that create good rapports with their employers, which in turn gives them the skill sets needed for future job prospects and, thus, the tools to be successful and competitive post-divorce.
Women, who often have to take years off their jobs or at least shift focus from their higher career goals to take care of young children (if they're not simply quitting their jobs to stay at home), aren't often guaranteed the same positions after they're ready/able to work again, if they are guaranteed jobs at all. And if a newly divorced mom wasn't working when she was married, it's so hard for her to find an occupation to maintain anything resembling her former financial status. She doesn't have the benefit of uninterrupted work experience or, in many cases, the skills employers are looking for.
Men are also more likely to get remarried after a divorce. Single, financially stable, middle-aged men are attractive to many women, and it's not uncommon for men to "marry up," i.e., finding people 10+ years younger to remarry because they like building bigger families with more virile/attractive women. Their ex-wives can't find similarly successful men nearly as easily... and they're less likely to seek remarriage in the first place, simply because American marriage benefits men much more than women. Which brings us back to our point: feminism is necessary. Inequality is real.
Even if these movements have brought "negative effects," they're far from counterproductive. The negative aspects of equality movements are short-term sacrifices that the already-privileged majority has to endure for everybody's long-term gain.