OMG my poor baby This is going to really take time. Have patience and please, be nice to yourself. Don't let any thought-up guilt seep into your head without getting the closure you deserve first.


Oh thank God I wasn't the only one who thought this

You're wide awake?

we had many arguments lately but it always seamed that we recover from everything... now I see that was just letting it go... and he has now explode... he didn't explain me anything, he just told me "well, you know this was happening since some time ago... we won't lose each other, but we can't stay together"...

I asked him to explain it with more details 'cause I think everything has a solution... I think we're gonna meet this week to talk about everything... There's no way we'll be together again because he won't change his mind, but at least I hope I will understand everything...

Thanks for all the things all of you write to me

Well I know absolutely nothing about relationships, just what I see on TV and in movies and stuff. Just play some Xtina music, YOU'RE A FIGHTER and you won't stop. Keep on singing your song, Boo. On a serious note, they left a good thing. You don't need them, you can find someone better.

Nope. Always left them.

never been the dumpee

my close friend whom Im secretly in love with left me! He wanted to reach me out before he left but I just ignored and refused him all the time! Before he left he used to tried to get in touch
with me like approaching me whenever he saw me. But I didn't dare try to speak or face him coz I didnt want to fall in love more with him! Now it's almost a year that we dont have any communication but I still in love with him! I can't still move on but I know this one shall pass!

We weren't boyfriends, but it sure felt we were together. I was kind of seeing this guy at school. We spent the whole spring semester together. It was unexpected because he reached out to me. When May came I knew things would change.

From May almost to the end of June we didn't speak to each other. I was so bored and lonely. On June 23 we started talking again. We were talking up until July 8, the day he asked me to keep him company at his boss's house. I said yeah. On June 11, I asked him if he still wanted me to keep him company. No answer. I asked him once again on June 14. No answer.

It's been silent ever since. It doesn't hurt so bad when I think about him now. I just hate that he left me the way he did. I miss him so much... He helped me at a moment in my life when I felt like dying for the second time. He doesn't even know he helped me.

All I could do was cry and be angry after he left... People (doesn't have to necessarily be someone I'm interested in) always leave me, tho, so I guess I should've expected it. I hope to see him again one day.

we met yesterday at his apartment... it happened anything between us, we just talked about it... He's sure about his decision and doesn't want to go back at what we had...

at least we could talk and the thing hasn't finished that bad... I still have faith on this 'cause I don't wanna lose him... only God knows what will go on

Yes, but I don't wanna talk about it.

Once. She did it via text on New Year's Eve, when i was over in NYC at my cousins'.


I was so pissed off. I basically just sulked for a few hours... Had that 'lumpish feeling' in my throat. But i got over it and went out that night + had a great time. I never cry. Ever.


I was more offended than hurt, though. I have quite the ego when it comes to these things lol.

Have you ever kissed your ex?

Sounds like he just feels like he's outgrown the relationship. Things change and people grow and the things he wanted or thought he wanted in a relationship as a teenager maybe just aren't what he wants and needs now. You don't want to force a relationship with someone who doesn't want it. That's a quick way to lose him as a friend too.

Just try to understand where he's coming from, accept it, and start taking the necessary steps to move on from it. It'd be really good if you two could have closure and remain good friends.