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Celeb News: Rihanna: "Chris Brown needed help"
Member Since: 12/7/2011
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Originally posted by slimmaz
This. Love is a powerful thing. Most of these girls on here don't get it. I AM NOT SAYING IT'S RIGHT. But when you're in love it's hard to suddenly hate that person despite what they did to you.
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I aint surprised half of these gurls don't get it. Most of them don't even see sunlight yet alone have relationships..
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Member Since: 5/8/2012
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Originally posted by Muggwa
You know what, lemme correct the lies here. 
-They were in a relationship and he tried to kill her. That is domestic violence.
-If he did something like that, it is his OWN responsibility to work on his problems so nothing of that sort happens again. NOT Rihanna's, NOT his family's, not anyone else. And he DOES need help.
-He stopped doing interviews, because last time, he threw a chair through a window when the interviewer brought up Rihanna — showing that he ISN'T "trying so hard to move on."
-Don't act like Chris isn't feeding into the drama of the relationship just as much as Rih.
-Don't act like SHE'S the one who needs to "move on with her life" when HE'S the one who tried to kill her.
-Don't **** shame her when Chris is WAYYYY more of a **** than she could ever be.
-If she is asked a question in an interview, she's expected to answer it, whatever the question may be. Chris would do well to learn this.
-She did love Chris, and it's pretty obvious IMO that she's experiencing some form of Stockholm Syndrome in relationship to the assault and its aftermath. It's much more complicated than "find a guy & move on girl."
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Member Since: 4/13/2011
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Originally posted by ItsKingsleyBitch
Y'all are so JUDGEMENTAL.
She LOVED him. I don't get how y'all are not understanding HER perspective.
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I know right. Some people are just so ****ing stupid.
SO blinded by their stan-induced dislike of Rihanna that they jump on the same tired old irrelevant things, even when something serious is being discussed.
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Member Since: 2/29/2012
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Anyway, I wish they'd stop showing this particular clip and show the answer to the "Do you think Chris Brown is a true love for you?" I mean, I want to know the answer to THAT.
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Member Since: 7/9/2009
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Originally posted by kitten****
Kingsley, it still DOES NOT change the fact that these young girls DO look up to them and are influenced by these celebs actions in this day and age. It may be sad/wrong that they are being raised in an unfit household, but they are YOUNG; without that type of proper guidance they're going to look up to the first thing they like. Rih is not the one to blame if they are killed/abused but that STILL does not change the fact that she's an influence.
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True.
But where would you say is the line between a celebrity living for themselves and living for everyone else?
And not even celebrities, but regular people too? One of my best friends went back to a boyfriend after he abused her and I was literally so paranoid and so worried for her, and so were our other friends, and I hated her decision. But one day she talked to me and she was like "You guys don't get it" and she explained to me how it feels to be with someone every day, to love them, to hold them, to be completely happy and one day, they just snap. And it's hard for us to understand, obviously, because we're not them.
For us, it's like "LEAVE" but to her, it's complicated. So many hours, days, months, years, time invested into someone, into being together, into a relationship, into love - and some expect her to just be able to forget it and act like it never happened?
I don't support getting back with abusers, and I will never support getting back with abusers; I just think some of you should try putting yourself in Rihanna's shoes and stop worrying about her "being a role model." 
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Member Since: 8/6/2012
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Not that much love in the world to want to go back to someone/or still have feelings for someone who abuse you. I understand what she's saying and some of the other comments in here but still. But it's her life and the media/fans have to respect that and move on.
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Member Since: 4/2/2010
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This makes her 2009 interview look so insincere! 
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Member Since: 4/22/2011
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^ to be honest I'm more worried about it happening again than the whole role model factor. Because lets face it, nothing's really changed except for time passing. He still needs help.
@kingsley
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Member Since: 12/7/2011
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Originally posted by BeamMeUp
This makes her 2009 interview look so insincere! |
How exactly? Oprah is asking her about it , times have changed. People can change their feelings/thoughts, events have taken place since then. Do you expect her to have the exact same mindset 3 years later.....
People these days...
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Member Since: 9/10/2011
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Originally posted by Muggwa
You know what, lemme correct the lies here.
-They were in a relationship and he tried to kill her. That is domestic violence.
-If he did something like that, it is his OWN responsibility to work on his problems so nothing of that sort happens again. NOT Rihanna's, NOT his family's, not anyone else. And he DOES need help.
-He stopped doing interviews, because last time, he threw a chair through a window when the interviewer brought up Rihanna — showing that he ISN'T "trying so hard to move on."
-Don't act like Chris isn't feeding into the drama of the relationship just as much as Rih.
-Don't act like SHE'S the one who needs to "move on with her life" when HE'S the one who tried to kill her.
-Don't **** shame her when Chris is WAYYYY more of a **** than she could ever be.
-If she is asked a question in an interview, she's expected to answer it, whatever the question may be. Chris would do well to learn this.
-She did love Chris, and it's pretty obvious IMO that she's experiencing some form of Stockholm Syndrome in relationship to the assault and its aftermath. It's much more complicated than "find a guy & move on girl."
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Repetitive Statement ..............* yawn* Nope he did NOT kill her ... Yes it was horrible but nobody can change what happened just move on. FACT she has every right to refuse to talk abt it coz there's always full agreement before every formal interview. Don't dwell on the past it wont help anybody if she loves the guy there is another way to approach him + CB will continue to make mistakes & its not her business or yours *period* Just cant believe you're making excuses for her
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Member Since: 4/22/2011
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Originally posted by SLAYANNA NAVY
How exactly? Oprah is asking her about it , times have changed. People can change their feelings/thoughts, events have taken place since then. Do you expect her to have the exact same mindset 3 years later.....
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Member Since: 12/7/2011
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Originally posted by CBTheKing
Repetitive Statement ..............* yawn* Nope he did NOT kill her ... Yes it was horrible but nobody can change what happened just move on. FACT she has every right to refuse to talk abt it coz there's always full agreement before every formal interview. Don't dwell on the past it wont help anybody if she loves the guy there is another way to approach him + CB will continue to make mistakes & its not her business or yours *period* Just cant believe you're making excuses for her
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But haven't you been making excuses for Chris? What kinda ......
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Originally posted by TheBronxGirl
Not that much love in the world to want to go back to someone/or still have feelings for someone who abuse you. I understand what she's saying and some of the other comments in here but still. But it's her life and the media/fans have to respect that and move on.
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Exactly.
Your life is more important than something that you may be able to find again with someone else.
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Member Since: 4/22/2011
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Originally posted by CBTheKing
Repetitive Statement ..............* yawn* Nope he did NOT kill her ... Yes it was horrible but nobody can change what happened just move on. FACT she has every right to refuse to talk abt it coz there's always full agreement before every formal interview. Don't dwell on the past it wont help anybody if she loves the guy there is another way to approach him + CB will continue to make mistakes & its not her business or yours *period* Just cant believe you're making excuses for her
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........................ I've seen it all. 
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Member Since: 4/23/2012
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Originally posted by CBTheKing
Repetitive Statement ..............* yawn* Nope he did NOT kill her ... Yes it was horrible but nobody can change what happened just move on. FACT she has every right to refuse to talk abt it coz there's always full agreement before every formal interview. Don't dwell on the past it wont help anybody if she loves the guy there is another way to approach him + CB will continue to make mistakes & its not her business or yours *period* Just cant believe you're making excuses for her
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Member Since: 9/11/2010
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Originally posted by G4L
^ to be honest I'm more worried about it happening again than the whole role model factor. Because lets face it, nothing's really changed except for time passing. He still needs help.
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But she hasnt gotten back with him yet. I'm sure there's good reason too.
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Member Since: 4/29/2012
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Originally posted by CBTheKing
Repetitive Statement ..............* yawn* Nope he did NOT kill her ... Yes it was horrible but nobody can change what happened just move on. FACT she has every right to refuse to talk abt it coz there's always full agreement before every formal interview. Don't dwell on the past it wont help anybody if she loves the guy there is another way to approach him + CB will continue to make mistakes & its not her business or yours *period* Just cant believe you're making excuses for her
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Member Since: 6/9/2012
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I get what she feels, but I think Rihanna is trying again to make the world forgives him as she did with the remix stuff. She's talking in past tense, like what he did to her is something that can be justified, and I do think she will never be happy unless she is back with him again. I don't think this kind of love she feels is easy to find in another person as some of you are saying. It's sad but it's something she can't help..
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Member Since: 12/14/2011
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Originally posted by CBTheKing
Repetitive Statement ..............* yawn* Nope he did NOT kill her ... Yes it was horrible but nobody can change what happened just move on. FACT she has every right to refuse to talk abt it coz there's always full agreement before every formal interview. Don't dwell on the past it wont help anybody if she loves the guy there is another way to approach him + CB will continue to make mistakes & its not her business or yours *period* Just cant believe you're making excuses for her
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He TRIED to kill her. Operative word being "tried." It IS her business, seeing as she's the victim in this situation, and if it isn't mine it certainly isn't your either so you can stop with that.
What excuses did I make for her? What did she even do that has to be excused? Your logic is inconsistent.
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Member Since: 10/4/2011
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Originally posted by ItsKingsleyBitch
True.
But where would you say is the line between a celebrity living for themselves and living for everyone else?
And not even celebrities, but regular people too? One of my best friends went back to a boyfriend after he abused her and I was literally so paranoid and so worried for her, and so were our other friends, and I hated her decision. But one day she talked to me and she was like "You guys don't get it" and she explained to me how it feels to be with someone every day, to love them, to hold them, to be completely happy and one day, they just snap. And it's hard for us to understand, obviously, because we're not them.
For us, it's like "LEAVE" but to her, it's complicated. So many hours, days, months, years, time invested into someone, into being together, into a relationship, into love - and some expect her to just be able to forget it and act like it never happened?
I don't support getting back with abusers, and I will never support getting back with abusers; I just think some of you should try putting yourself in Rihanna's shoes and stop worrying about her "being a role model." |
I completely agree.
To those saying that her 2009 interview seems insincere I don't think it seems insincere I think she was just misguided and under a lot of scrutiny and a lot of pressure. She kinda had to be a role model and be an advocate and that was her biggest mistake. There is no doubt in my mind that Rihanna feels the same way today as she did in 2009. She loved and still loves Chris Brown and would be with him in a heartbeat. The only difference is that she was a lot easier influenced by her label and the general public to leave him and speak out against him as she is now. Now she just doesnt give a **** she's gon do what she wants regardless of what errbody gotta say (BC Remix) Anyone with half a brain could tell she didnt want Breezy to suffer. i mean we've seen the footage in court where the judge tells her she shouldn't have contact with him and that he has to stay away from her (she was not happy about it) She ended her Rated R era very quickly and doesn't sing any songs from that album except Hard and RB and not any of the songs that reference her "pain" and "anguish" It's so obvious she was over it really quickly. The girl fell in love and fell really hard and as misguided as it was it's not something any of us are in any position to judge her about.
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