Originally posted by WoozyFloozy Come on over to my place and get some affirmative action.

Originally posted by Ramcoro Yea, I know that exists, ive seen it too and I am white, so I probably wont notice it as well as you do. Is your family okay with you being gay? I know minorities have more trouble with that too. I feel the "same" when I see "no fems".

Originally posted by evo I really hate complaints like this , and this is only my second time ever hearing it. People have a right to be not attracted to whatever they aren't attracted to. Find someone who does like you instead of weeping over the ones who don't.

Originally posted by WoozyFloozy Come on over to my place and get some affirmative action.

Originally posted by WIG-SNATCHER Is it weird that I see racism im the gay community WAY MORE than anywhere else.?And I grew up in the south.

Originally posted by Reza Shut up bitch. He just wants to have a conversation about his situation. If you don't like it, leave!

Sis this is the story of my life...but most of my friends are like the closest to another race they'd date is a biracial person.... They use to be like how do you like other races...I'm always telling them because I like variety and other cultures in who I date.. But lately I've been obsessed with Native American's but I can't find any.... ....But what I strongly dislike is when other people get mad at other people for interracial dating choices...The funny thing is the ones who try their hardest to date in "ones race" and avoid said other's would be surprised to know they most likely have at-least a percentage of the race their trying to avoid lol.....But OP I came to the conclusion along time ago that some people just are more comfortable and/or just like their or certain races...everyone has a preference and that should be respected...Thank you doing this thread

Originally posted by WIG-SNATCHER Is it weird that I see racism im the gay community WAY MORE than anywhere else.?And I grew up in the south.

Originally posted by WIG-SNATCHER But not everyone looks the same. I can't just say "Im not attracted to Filipino guys" that just doesn't make since to me. I don't know every Filipino guy so why would I say I am not attracted to them.

Originally posted by WIG-SNATCHER But not everyone looks the same. I can't just say "Im not attracted to Filipino guys" that just doesn't make since to me. I don't know every Filipino guy so why would I say I am not attracted to them.

Originally posted by Mister Martian I don't judge people for having preferences. You like what you like. I judge people for being ignorant about it.

Originally posted by WIG-SNATCHER I really need opinions on this, I feel like it is a topic many people avoid, and I would like to know how people feel ^.^

Originally posted by MyNameIsMiro Not at all. I live in San Francisco and I see more racism in the gay community here than I have anywhere else. If you go to the Castro you can see that people generally hang out with people of the same race. There's like a black group, an Asian group, etc... it's incredibly strange and stupid. But the Castro is special because it tries as hard as it can to be stupid.

Originally posted by Evun But people have preferences. For the sake of these websites, isn't best for users to say them directly? Sure, there are exceptions to every rule -- a guy who isn't into Fillipinos may meet a Fillipino guy that he finds specially attractive. But if someone is set in a preference enough that exceptions like that are very rare, isn't better to not lie about it? People should be able to say their preferences.

Originally posted by FreeBitch Do you live in France ? My boyfriends so far 1) Black African. 2) Polish White 3) French White. Here in France i know for a fact that there are still alot prejudices toward Black people but i dont care much about what others think of me. My second ex-boyfriend, (the polish one) only date Black or birracial. He doesnt like white boys and always said he will never date anyone else than a black + i have actually alot of friends who love to date outside thier ethnic group. So i dont really pay attention to closed minds. But i have a question : Do you date Black or Birracial ?

Originally posted by Mister Martian I don't judge people for having preferences. You like what you like. I judge people for being ignorant about it.

Originally posted by CoolestPerson12 Birds of a feather flock together. Its not racism, people will always hang around people who share a common thing. And race and ethnicity is something common that people will share. Humans are naturally built that way, look around in the world, and people who are similar always hang around each other. And that includes dating also, people will more likely date someone who looks like them in race and attractiveness. That's humans.