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Originally posted by Ryan Bálor
I struggle with this personally and professionally. I spent the last two years trying to get one of my big bosses to like me and then I finally realized I don't need his validation.
It's always liked to be liked, and it sucks when you aren't, but it's something you can learn to adapt to with time. It's hard tho.
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you know i feel like i relate to you a lot omg
because like, i used to be so concerned with other people's opinions, but after some bullying when i was younger i realized that people who don't know me at all really don't define who i am and i shouldn't shape my self-image around them. i'm working on being too sensitive when it comes to people i respect, but when it's someone i don't know, there's really no reason to care, i think.