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Originally posted by Sazare
 If the same pressure to conform existed in the cis/straight population they'd be just as selfish as you say some of us are. Blame the cishets for putting that on us to begin with.
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As i said, its all about what sort of morals you have inside. There are many lgbt people, that have honour,compassion and care for others, they'd be caught dead going to lie to another person about who they are, so that they suffer in unhappiness with them. Id respect a gay, bi or trans guy that decides to marry a cis straight woman but has been honest to her about his identity and she agreed to the whole marriage, than the skilful deceitful gay, bi or trans individual(already having turbulence inside) selfishly planning to use a cis straight etc individual,knowing very well that **** will blow up later in time and will cause all sorts of damage. People make choices to be GOOD or BAD. Bad is just bad, cruel is just cruel and selfish at the expense of others, is just that. Single-hood while you walk your journey of self-discovery is never wrong and nowhere in the world is being single a crime.