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Originally posted by Haburo
That's obviously neither what myself or the other user is talking about. Your comment is a mess. Stay out of discussions you don't understand. You're embarrassing yourself.
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In the real world people are hard on gays. The more feminine you are, the more likely you are to be identified as LGBT+. That is a fact. The more likely you are to be identified as LGBT+, the more likely it is that you will face homophobia etc.. Who wants that for their child?
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The argument was, no one should hope their child is gay because it will be hard for them. My argument is, children will also face discrimination if they are a PoC. Should parents hope their children aren't a PoC either? Should parents hope that their children are perfectly normal and take every single normal action so that they're never hurt?
If a male child was effeminate, would you tell them they can't act like that because kids might be mean to them? That hurts the child too.
It's not what I want for my children, which is why I'll continue to fight homophobia instead of just hoping I don't have a gay child. That's my point.