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Originally posted by Rihinvention
I don't understand how/why this is appealing to so many women. I think it must be the fact that the Grey guy is in his late 20s, early 30s, is meant to be ridiculously attractive and is already a multi-billionaire, who is financially secure and takes control in the bedroom, like a man should.
But the whole S&M/BDSM thing...no. People might experiment with handcuffs and stuff...but the second someone whips out gag-balls, wooden paddles and whips...no thank you. I can't imagine too many middle-aged women actually enjoying that. It might sound exciting when they read it, but the second their butt cheeks start bleeding because their husband is beating them with a baseball bat, they're going to be like "owwww omg *screams safe word* omfg, why would you do that, that hurts so much, I'm bleeding. I'm f***ing bleeding, quick, get the sheets off the bed, omg it stings so much."
BDSM is gross. I'm so vanilla. Just kissing and cuddling >>>>>>>>>>> Kissing especially >>>>>>>>>
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BDSM is nothing like you are describing it. There are no baseball bats involved (to my knowing) and there is no blood involved either.
It can be very safe and very sexy when done right with someone you trust.