I think I have my problem sort of figured out. A lot of people told me that they think the guy is closeted (while being pretty religious) and that our chats looked a bit like flirting (not my intention at all)... I think it makes sense that he was maybe sort of getting into it so wanted to distance himself from me because he doesn't wanna sin or whatever... the only explanation that's semi-plausible, won't make me look crazy and actually flatters me a little bit :3
We never chatted too much but the small amount that we did was nice and personal and how I usually connect with my friends... He mighta read the signs a bit wrong... Too bad :P I'm also not out yet so he doesn't know about my 'crush'... What a weird person