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Originally posted by Tymps.
You are not alone in this, I feel this intense hate to how society works. (I live in the US so what you described is really most of what I know.) It's not just the hypersexualization, but also how people can treat people like trash and get away with it so easily just because people want to fuck them. I've started to notice that friend groups at least at my high school are compromised of people who are equally as "attractive" as one another with very few exceptions. And of course people who look good can really get whatever they want over everyone else. It really pisses me off that people's desire to S someone's D can completely change how they treat people and they're not introspective enough to make any note of it.
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Thank you! People don't respect love, they don't respect relatonships even though some people "fight" for love (gay p'rnstars) but in reality, they don't even know what love really is. Casual s'x is not love. But it seems like it is in America. I do understand the special situation in America tho. Christianity was huge in America and there was a high social pressure which leaded to a very liberal youth who now use S'x to break traditions and all that stuff. I personally don't believe that this is the right way and some traditions are good. You can find the traditional relationship between two people in every part of human history. And I believe it will survive in the future too. What's to point in a life without love? What's the point of living a life in clubs, a life without stability and a life without ambitions? You (everyone of us) could change so many things in this world. There are so many great political topics, so many global issues to fight for.
We live in a system where everyone things that it is how it is and nobody cares to change it. It is right because "we" are rich and "we" have everything when in actuality, the rich become richer and those who are poor are even poorer now. And like you said, people nowadays don't care about each other, they don't care about the nature, animals, homeless, anything. They care about instagram, s'x, twitter, popstars, the rich live etc.
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Originally posted by *-ChriZ-*
I was in Barcelona a few days ago and even though I thoroughly enjoyed it, I have to admit I felt pretty lonely for the first time since ever. You know, you're walking down the streets and see all of these amazing buildings and sights, and you completely enjoy them, until you witness all those pairs around you having a great time. And suddenly you simply feel lonely, because at the end of the day, you got no one to share it with...
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It is hard when you want love but you were born in a minority where those who want love are a minority themselves. But listen, there are people like you. There are monogamous people, there are people who do care for you and you will find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. Don't give up! And most importantly, don't believe in the gay community. Believe in yourself and your own values. Not all gays are hypersexualized and there are gays who seek marriage and strong relationships. Good luck! (Are you from Ioff?
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