24 years old, still a virgin. I grew up believing that one should wait til they're married to have sex. After having been in one relationship, I might say my stance is a little uncertain, however I still believe sex should be between people in committed and serious relationships. Growing up in high school and college, I've never gotten teased about it or anything so it's definitely not something I feel someone should be ashamed about.
It's neither good nor bad, neither something to be ashamed or proud of....it just is. There is no reason to make a big deal out of sexuality and make it taboo.
Until my first sex i thought it's the holiest thing ever and i was proud to be a virgin. Now i realize it isn't holy, it's so random and it's totally nice when you do it with the right person. I could've done it so much earlier, but i admit i was stupid.
Sex isn't a big deal, but it's a huge one when it actually means something to you because of the person who you're doing it with. It depends.
Being a virgin is a virtue, but it's also a burden.
