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Discussion: Are you g0y?
Member Since: 6/25/2010
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This is probably the most attention the g0y moment has received.
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Originally posted by Dancehall Queen
This is probably the most attention the g0y moment has received.
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The LGBT's commitment to creating lingo that you can't pronounce after reading
"Trans*" - Since when were asterisks used in words?
"Zhi" "Xi" and all those other pronouns - How do I pronounce these exactly
now "g0y" - Numbers in words?
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G0YS represent the silent majority of men who happen to have deep feelings for other men & would like to express them in an atmosphere of respect without the least hint of moral debasement, - nor a compulsion to blindly "tolerate" offensive actions.
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I didn't even notice this gem at the bottom.
d @ the blatant begging for str8s
Oh P.S. Mr Loco could you elaborate on your feelings about this part
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And how "GAY" has become an amorphous term used to push every social ill under the guise of "tolerance". G0YS understand that when a philosophy results in actions that harm others --then it's time to STOP TOLERATING IT. Because of what the term "GAY" has become, --just because you are a guy who loves men /too --doesn't mean that you need to embrace anything calling itself "GAY". As G0YS -we generally reject it -because men loving men is NORMAL; --it's NOT gender dysmorphic!
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What actions, exactly, fall under the term "gay" that are harming people?
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Oh my god, the site itself is even worse
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G0YS are N0T under the influence of any delusion that might suggest that anal penetration might somehow equal "sex". Penetration only equals sex with women & only when genital-to-genital; -- Never anal.
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What the actual ****? Why are you defending this?! You can't even have oral sex!!!
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G0YS refuse to be ASSociated with a culture that is framed in the mind of the public as a bunch of ****-tainted, arse-*****ers. We choose the term "G0Y" because we are men who reject all the 'baggage' ASSociated with "gAy" & the "gAy-male community".
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Member Since: 2/5/2014
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It's not that I'm like them, but I don't name sexuality with anyone - is that what they're trying to say too, in a way?
I don't view my self as "gay", just as I don't view someone as being "straight" or "bi". I just respect that people have different interests and different tastes in people, whether that's in the same sex or not - it's just humans liking humans.
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Originally posted by Owenrm
It's not that I'm like them, but I don't name sexuality with anyone - is that what they're trying to say too, in a way?
I don't view my self as "gay", just as I don't view someone as being "straight" or "bi". I just respect that people have different interests and different tastes in people, whether that's in the same sex or not - it's just humans liking humans.
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G0YS are N0T under the influence of any delusion that might suggest that anal penetration might somehow equal "sex". Penetration only equals sex with women & only when genital-to-genital; -- Never anal. G0YS refuse to be ASSociated with a culture that is framed in the mind of the public as a bunch of ****-tainted, arse-*****ers. We choose the term "G0Y" because we are men who reject all the 'baggage' ASSociated with "gAy" & the "gAy-male community".
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Nope, don't think that's what they're trying to say.
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Some people, (who cannot seem to understand our sense of incredulity & disgust about the reputation that "gay male" community has brought upon itself) accuse g0ys of being "self loathing" or words to that effect. So, once again - I'll clarify our position to those who make such assertions: We don't loathe ourselves. We loathe YOUR complicit arse. If you don't understand the difference between "us" & "you", -I'm sure that there are available, -several great books for preschoolers with big colorful pictures that help explain the difference between those pronouns.
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Member Since: 4/22/2009
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They already have a name for these men -- it's called the "down low."
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The legitimate obsession the guy who runs this website has with anal sex
Like, he DOES realize that straight people do it too, right?
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Good god...
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Member Since: 4/26/2007
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Originally posted by J. YONCÉ
Yeah, it's common slang. You can't control what other gay men call you.
If you feel insecure in your masculinity because of that, you are not actually masculine. Someone who is really masculine doesn't feel less masculine because of what other people call them endearingly. Someone who is actually masculine doesn't need constant validation and reaffirmation of their masculinity.
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I don't feel less masculine when I get called those names, it's just that I don't like it
And a few posts ago, you said people who don't like anal it's pretty much common, but I don't really agree with you, I know a lot of gay people and none of them feels that way about it. And it being common or not, at least if it has a name it's easier to identify people with same tendencies.
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Member Since: 4/26/2007
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Originally posted by J. YONCÉ
1. The most basic concept of the "g0y" movement is that they don't admit to being gay. You're choosing to focus on two details (don't like buttsex and "masculinity!") and ignoring the other paragraphs that you posted.
2. The reality of being a gay man is that society as a whole is set up to tell you you're feminine. No amount of coming up with other labels to call yourself that will ever change the fact that closed-minded people are going to think you're more feminine for being gay. Making up some other label to call yourself because you want to "distance" yourself from that is weak. Be a man and deal with the ******** you have to deal with for being gay, don't try to act like you're somehow separate from it because you don't like buttsex.
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1. I know it's a flawed movement, just as most (or probably all) big movements are, but why are you insisting or pointing out just the bad parts of it... I try to take the good and relatable things of it, I think we should just agree to disagree about this one, cos' this conversation is not really going anywhere.
2. My point (as I said before) is not that just "closed-mind" people think gays are more feminine just for that fact, the problem is that many gays actually start to believe it and act like it is truth, and not just with themselves, but with all the other gays too, and that's why I feel there should be a distinction.
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Member Since: 4/26/2007
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Originally posted by J. YONCÉ
I didn't even notice this gem at the bottom.
d @ the blatant begging for str8s
Oh P.S. Mr Loco could you elaborate on your feelings about this part
What actions, exactly, fall under the term "gay" that are harming people?
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I don't think that they're talking about the exact definition of the term "gay" that's hurting people, but about all the stereotypes related to it. Stereotypes do hurt people.
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Member Since: 4/26/2007
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Originally posted by Legend ReX
They already have a name for these men -- it's called the "down low."
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They do like anal sex, tho...
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that site is a mess
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Member Since: 4/26/2007
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Member Since: 4/26/2007
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Originally posted by Jameson Teqkilla
1) Not being interested in anal =/= g0y. All you have to say is "oral only," or "not into anal" like gay men have been doing for decades.
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I just tried to do it yesterday and it was a mess...ç
Guy: Are you top or bottom?
Me: None of those
Guy: So..?
Me: I don't like anal
Guy: You're a top then...
Me: No...
Guy: Are you straight?
Me:
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All these new terms people are trying to come up with
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Originally posted by Mr. Loco
1. I know it's a flawed movement, just as most (or probably all) big movements are, but why are you insisting or pointing out just the bad parts of it... I try to take the good and relatable things of it, I think we should just agree to disagree about this one, cos' this conversation is not really going anywhere.
2. My point (as I said before) is not that just "closed-mind" people think gays are more feminine just for that fact, the problem is that many gays actually start to believe it and act like it is truth, and not just with themselves, but with all the other gays too, and that's why I feel there should be a distinction.
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Because they outnumber the good points by like 500 to 2. I've literally posted like 15 different questionable things from their own website and all you keep coming back to is "I don't like buttsex"
I'm not only focusing on the bad. You're focusing on literally 1 point you identify with and ignoring every single other thing they say, and expecting the rest of us to do the same. Why would you identify with a movement when you have to ignore 99% of what they say?
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Originally posted by Mr. Loco
I just tried to do it yesterday and it was a mess...ç
Guy: Are you top or bottom?
Me: None of those
Guy: So..?
Me: I don't like anal
Guy: You're a top then...
Me: No...
Guy: Are you straight?
Me:
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And calling yourself g0y wouldn't have made that exchange go any better.
You aren't going to have successful interactions with every gay man you meet, that's not how it works.
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