Personally, I'm right in the middle of these two stereotypes. I wouldn't call myself very "masculine", but I wouldn't say I'm exactly "feminine either".
In terms of dating, I would not date a really feminine/flamboyant gay.I have many friends like that, but I am just not personally attracted to that kind of personality/look. I've had two serious relationships, and both have been with more "average" guys... I find guys who are down to earth really attractive.
Well I'm not gay. I'm bisexual. Pretty masculine. Only on ATRL do I let my feminine ways show. I personally don't find feminine guys attractive. I like girls, and I like guys. I like super feminine girls. I want my guys to be masculine.
This! I honestly don't get it!! Why some gays act so girly, like hello I'm gay because I like strong masculine men. The kind of guys who are into sports and cars!!!
Uhm not all guys like sports and cars... lol just saying.