I feel that I'll never fall completely in love solely because I care about myself way too much. I could never risk my own emotions by putting them in someone else's hands like that, I'm a selfish bitch at the end of the day and like Jessica said, I complete myself. I don't need or want anyone else to complete me.
OMGGGGGG That sounds similar to ******** I went through with my ex.
Back during my first year of college, I started dating this guy. He was a bi-sexual and very much in the closet and I as far as I knew, he wasn't even attracted to girls anymore. To make a long story short, I found pictures on his phone and found out he was still screwing around with girls and the relationship was over.
Fast Forward to last summer, I run into him and his girlfriend (totally different girl) on the Subway and she's pregnant.
That makes me sad, because either the guy is gay and now stuck with a woman "forever". And because she's just a cover up. or maybe he was full bi but fell for the woman instead of a man.
I'd never do that though. If I was committed to one person (Male or female) I'd be 100% faithful while I was with them. If I had a dude I wount be screwing with girls or other dudes on the side. I'd commit to the person.
Plus, love is PURE delusion.....really, that's all love is. Lies. False hope. You fall in love with who you want the other person to be, but how often do they actually end up being that person? Love will always lead to disappointment and pain in the end; it's so redundant and I wish I could do without that ****.
Yet, we're only human, and no matter how we try to focus on FACTS, the DELUSION of love will forever be pulling at our heart strings. :/
- In a 6 months relationship
- With a **** buddy that I met a few weeks ago
- With another "Friend With Benefits", but I got attached I don't complain tho. I deserve it, shoulda stay with the first one.
Ugh there's this guy that's so perfect. His looks, personality, music taste etc... but I've never held a serious conversation with him before and I'm too scared because we're both in the closet and I don't think either of us are ready to come out. We have so many mutual friends too but I'm too shy to talk to him I'm tired of being alone.
That makes me sad, because either the guy is gay and now stuck with a woman "forever". And because she's just a cover up. or maybe he was full bi but fell for the woman instead of a man.
I'd never do that though. If I was committed to one person (Male or female) I'd be 100% faithful while I was with them. If I had a dude I wount be screwing with girls or other dudes on the side. I'd commit to the person.
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I wonder does she know about his past and if he still has sexual feelings toward men as well. He probably does.
I hope she does know but knowing him, probably not.
And don't get me wrong, bi-sexual people aren't completely incapable of staying faithful, it's just more difficult to do so considering they're attracted to BOTH sexes.
Ugh, this literally JUST happened to me. Though, his sexual orientation is definitely questionable.
Sis I don't want to ruin it but I always have the same feeling about a lot of guys, but isn't it just that we want him to be gay or at least bi? That's why we start to think that he might be gay.
I hope she does know but knowing him, probably not.
And don't get me wrong, bi-sexual people aren't completely incapable of staying faithful, it's just more difficult to do so considering they're attracted to BOTH sexes.
Trew. Bi-sexual people get the best of both worlds but it has it's disadvantage.
I don't complain tho. I deserve it, shoulda stay with the first one.
Why did you think I was from New Jersey?! Never saw my flop English sometimes? 
