I still have yet to see point being made here that is not more so an issue of race than it is of sexuality and race. Your cries for representation is literally no different than that of any PoC demanding more visibility. I won't disagree that PoC gays need more visibility, just as I wouldn't disagree PoC women, children, trans, men, elderly, etc need more visibility.
Anyone that uses being rejected on Grindr as a pedestal to shout out "Queer Black Lives Matter," though, really needs to start loving themselves more.