Control freak... These rules are ridiculous. She is paying so much for a phone for her kid, but he will only have access to it for about 4-5 hours a day (on school days) before it has to be shut off and handed to her at 7:30pm. What a joke... I'd rather give the phone back and save up money to buy a cheap phone I can use whenever I want.
At some point parents have to learn to let their kids have the opportunity to make their own decisions and their own mistakes. If you've taught them right and they're intelligent enough they won't do anything too stupid. You cannot shelter your children like that
. Although she shouldn't have gotten a 13 year old an iPhone anyway.