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Originally posted by Bey'Knight
Why do they have to be there? They're Kandi's employees. Porsha doesnt have to give em any time of day. Besides when Don whatever was relaying back to Kandi, was Porsha present? Kandi is self-centred n bias. The truth is she wasnt there for Phaedra at her time of need and seeing anyone seeing others play that part better irks her ie Nene, Porsha. She accuses ppl of taking sides but shes stuck by her husband's version of events since day 1 b4 even breathing a word to Phaedra.
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With all due respect, did you see last years' reunion where they specifically stated that Kandi was always the one reaching out to Phaedra and Kandi had her own stuff going on and Phaedra didn't reciprocate.
I don't recall Phaedra disputing that claim. hearing Kandi say the truth that she wanted him out and her knowing the true story and not the sob story to make people feel sorry for Phaedra it makes sense to me that Kandi would be irked.
Real talk, even if Phaedra was involved (allegedly) I mean come on we already know...but it's a terrible thing but that doesn't mean the world stops and other people stop having issues. Kandi did her part communicating with her and always making the effort. She got tired when seeing the hypocrisy.
While Kandi tries to play neutral I think it's very clear that Phaedra and Kandi have talked alot of trash about Nene and Kenya at minimum.
Too see Phaedra not pull her end of the friendship and then buddy up with someone she's talked so much trash about ... I understand Kandi giving a sideeye.
That said, I don't think Kandi handled everything correctly and I don't think the whole Don Juan relaying information to her without porsha is valid. That's silly to me.
Not only do we know this is a show and that was a scene but in real life when a friend relays information to you, it's not. STOP. Wait until we all see each other at an event in the next however many days. You listen and then decide to clear the air and have all present.
NOw, the part where Kandi was WRONG was where she allowed Karmen who was not there at all to be a part of it. Shamea and Don Juan were there, though.
Kandi made a great point when she wanted all there because she is RIGHT when it's one on one people backpedal and downplay what they said as if it isn't on camera in a scene or confessional.
So there's no chance for anyone to backpedal without being called out I would do the same thing minus Karmen's little sister following big brother everywhere messy tail.
