Some of the posts in here clearly show that some of you lack a sense of maturity and understanding.
I really hope that something will give him the motivation he needs to change things. It seems as though the only thing that'll help is a major health scare, which is sad but sometimes it's the only thing that'll help change a persons mindset. He's still an attractive man and the sooner he starts to think that himself, the sooner he'll be able to start to become himself again.