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Poll: Would you date a bisexual man ?
View Poll Results: Would you ?
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No, Im not here for them. Im here for official relationship with an open gay man
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Yes. I would like to experiment. I dont care about long term relationships.
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I don't know. As long as they admit they're actually half gay
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Originally posted by Mezter
Yeah. I'd prefer that actually.
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For what reasons ? Why do people say that ?
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by jodyygang
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that's why i wouldn't, I feel being attracted to both sexes is just a phase for most people and at some point they'll have to choose one sex.
Whether a bisexual person settles down with a man or woman they'll still always be attracted to the other sex which leads to infidelity and other ****.
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What kind of ********.
Even if a gay man settles down with one man they'll always be attracted to other men, which could also lead to infidelity.
Even if a straight man settles down with one woman they'll always be attracted to other women, which again could ALSO lead to infidelity.
If people followed that, nobody would get into relationships at ALL.
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Yes but it probably wouldn't be a long term thing.
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Originally posted by Cola.drinker
Well if they didnt sell, they wouldnt be created.
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*insert random flop album here* didn't sell. Why was it created then?
OT: I think it is actually straight men who use those with their woman. If bi men wanted it, they can get it. But straight men who want it ain't attracted to the people who haves it. So they settle for alternatives
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Quote:
Originally posted by jodyygang
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that's why i wouldn't, I feel being attracted to both sexes is just a phase for most people and at some point they'll have to choose one sex.
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It's not called choosing a sex, it's called choosing a person. If you're BI, you obviously are going to end of having a long term partner, and that will be whoever you're happier with, whether it's a male or female. It has nothing to do with being confused about sexuality. If you're a gay man and your Bisexual boyfriend leaves you for a female, that's because you weren't a good partner, or they have commitment issues, it has nothing to do with their sexuality. That is, of course, if they are Truly bisexual and not just experimenting.
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Whether a bisexual person settles down with a man or woman they'll still always be attracted to the other sex which leads to infidelity and other ****..
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This is the most ignorant post I've seen in this thread. A person doesn't cheat because they are Bisexual, they cheat because the relationship isn't good or they have commitment issues. That is the same for ALL sexual orientations. What do you think, that a gay man won't cheat on his boyfriend with another man because he is only attracted to men? Or is it okay for a guy to cheat with another guy, but not with a female?
Bisexuality = Infidelity and Promiscuity. That is how a lot of people see it and it's sad. A woman would rather not date a man who loves her because he identifies as bisexual, but her straight boyfriend could be cheating with countless females. That is why I don't identify with any sexual orientation. I've always hated the negativity around Bisexuality but I'm attracted to all sexes so I don't identify with any group and people get so frustrated when I say that. Everyone wants you to have a label, but naturally, it doesn't work that way.
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What is this mess of a thread acting like bisexuality is a disease or something :giantbiblio:
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Originally posted by Cola.drinker
For what reasons ? Why do people say that ?
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Metzer is bi. So they could invite a girl over and have some fun with her and each other.
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Originally posted by Walley
It's not called choosing a sex, it's called choosing a person. If you're BI, you obviously are going to end of having a long term partner, and that will be whoever you're happier with, whether it's a male or female. It has nothing to do with being confused about sexuality. If you're a gay man and your Bisexual boyfriend leaves you for a female, that's because you weren't a good partner, or they have commitment issues, it has nothing to do with their sexuality. That is, of course, if they are Truly bisexual and not just experimenting.
This is the most ignorant post I've seen in this thread. A person doesn't cheat because they are Bisexual, they cheat because the relationship isn't good or they have commitment issues. That is the same for ALL sexual orientations. What do you think, that a gay man won't cheat on his boyfriend with another man because he is only attracted to men? Or is it okay for a guy to cheat with another guy, but not with a female?
Bisexuality = Infidelity and Promiscuity. That is how a lot of people see it and it's sad. A woman would rather not date a man who loves her because he identifies as bisexual, but her straight boyfriend could be cheating with countless females. That is why I don't identify with any sexual orientation. I've always hated the negativity around Bisexuality but I'm attracted to all sexes so I don't identify with any group and people get so frustrated when I say that. Everyone wants you to have a label, but naturally, it doesn't work that way.
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x 100000
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This thread is so uneducated...
Bi people CAN have long term relationships as well!
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Dating as in relationship? Maybe. But deep down I would always know that he'll leave me for a woman one day to have his own babies so I would keep myself from falling in love.
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I am bi myself, and that's a pretty big generalization in the op. I'm not bi cause I'm young and want to experiment with both. I've been in long term relationships with both boys and girls, both had their ups and downs. It's not all about what's in between the legs, it's about the actual human being behind it all. It shouldn't be all that hard to comprehend...gays know they are gay cause only guys turn them on, straight guys know they're straight cause only girls turn them on. I can be equally turned on by a girl or a guy. And I can see the benefits and disadvantages of ending up with either, and it doesn't really bother me which sex I end up with, as long as the actual person behind it is what I fell in love for.
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Quote:
Originally posted by Walley
It's not called choosing a sex, it's called choosing a person. If you're BI, you obviously are going to end of having a long term partner, and that will be whoever you're happier with, whether it's a male or female. It has nothing to do with being confused about sexuality. If you're a gay man and your Bisexual boyfriend leaves you for a female, that's because you weren't a good partner, or they have commitment issues, it has nothing to do with their sexuality. That is, of course, if they are Truly bisexual and not just experimenting.
This is the most ignorant post I've seen in this thread. A person doesn't cheat because they are Bisexual, they cheat because the relationship isn't good or they have commitment issues. That is the same for ALL sexual orientations. What do you think, that a gay man won't cheat on his boyfriend with another man because he is only attracted to men? Or is it okay for a guy to cheat with another guy, but not with a female?
Bisexuality = Infidelity and Promiscuity. That is how a lot of people see it and it's sad. A woman would rather not date a man who loves her because he identifies as bisexual, but her straight boyfriend could be cheating with countless females. That is why I don't identify with any sexual orientation. I've always hated the negativity around Bisexuality but I'm attracted to all sexes so I don't identify with any group and people get so frustrated when I say that. Everyone wants you to have a label, but naturally, it doesn't work that way.
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Slay these people
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Yes, I would but I'm not going to lie that I would always slightly worry about whether I really am what he wants. It's not that I'd doubt his genuinity about wanting to be with me but in a long-term relationship you will not be able to give that person everything he likes sexually so that's going to be a problem at some point.
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idk i feel like the sex would be better but I'm not being stood up because a n**** need to go visit his baby momma and kids smh not here for it at all .
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Originally posted by Allstar
Yes, I would but I'm not going to lie that I would always slightly worry about whether I really am what he wants.
In a long-term relationship you will not be able to give that person everything he likes sexually so that's going to be a problem at some point.
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Yes thats the problem a lot of people are not aware. As a gay you are fully satisfied in a relationship with another man. Is a bi man fully satisfied when he settles down with just one gender ?
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Originally posted by karron0624
Metzer is bi. So they could invite a girl over and have some fun with her and each other.
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karron, always knowing the true gospel
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