| |
Discussion: Dislikes about being gay?
Member Since: 3/4/2009
Posts: 5,549
|
I love being gay, but there are some disadvantages. The biggest ones for me:
- its so much easier for gay men to have sex and they can rarely pull off monogamy, so building a relationship is hard work and often impossible
- kids. I really want kids at some point in the future. And I will need to find some alternative ways, which are usually expensive. To be more clear, I want a kid that is genetically mine.
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/12/2012
Posts: 8,464
|
Quote:
Originally posted by DimmiFenty
Adequate is at least 7.5, 7 and lower is tiny to me at least. I've never even seen <6.5.
|
LOL! Don't freak the little boys in here RN!
|
|
|
|
ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 8/1/2012
Posts: 27,547
|
The worst part of it is having male 'friends' but then they all chose to ignore you when you come out 
And girls saying "you're my gay best friend". No, I'm either your best friend or a friend- not a gay best friend
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 2/16/2012
Posts: 8,690
|
When people think I say or do things just because i'm gay.
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 9/22/2010
Posts: 12,763
|
"It's just a phase."
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 9/15/2012
Posts: 5,220
|
"You need a treatment. You're sick..."
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 5/15/2012
Posts: 4,046
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Glitter
Let me start
* Being known as someones gay friend
* Being stereotyped constantly
* Straight guys thinking you are coming onto them  |
These + being looked down upon by certain groups of people.
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/26/2012
Posts: 421
|
Knowing you could lose everything over revealing something you never chose.
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/4/2012
Posts: 37,267
|
We're like mutants from X-Men.. Being gay is like our mutant ability, we never chose it, but are looked down upon and told we are going to hell and its a sin and its an unhealthy lifestyle.
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 9/12/2012
Posts: 26,389
|
All the negative stereotypes actually give me something to laugh at. I just think to myself "I would rather be obviously gay than obviously ignorant."
But this does have a funny story. I had a friend (who was straight) and he was thinking of sending a pic of his junk to some girl (Idr if he knew her irl or not) and at first I was trying to convince him not to, but he clearly wanted to...(the main reason I was trying to convince him not to was because he wanted to show me first) If I remember, he said "Well, you gay so you think like a girl. I want to know it you like it." In the back of my head I was yelling and facepalming so hard, but I was just like "Okay then...lemme see it"
Then I showed it to my boyfriend at the time, and we were laughing about it (Not that it was small, but even if it was I don't judge a guy by his meat shaft.) (Also, I don't think he ended up sending it to the girl, so he ended up showing his penis to 2 gay guys and with no gain...)
But I just thought it was so...idek the word for it, to assume that just cause one person might like his junk, someone else would (not even considering the fact that I was a gay guy and he wanted to show a girl)
But TL;DR - Being gay gives me a lot of things to laugh about, but also annoying things to deal with.
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 9/15/2012
Posts: 5,220
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Hugamari
All the negative stereotypes actually give me something to laugh at. I just think to myself "I would rather be obviously gay than obviously ignorant."
But this does have a funny story. I had a friend (who was straight) and he was thinking of sending a pic of his junk to some girl (Idr if he knew her irl or not) and at first I was trying to convince him not to, but he clearly wanted to...(the main reason I was trying to convince him not to was because he wanted to show me first) If I remember, he said "Well, you gay so you think like a girl. I want to know it you like it." In the back of my head I was yelling and facepalming so hard, but I was just like "Okay then...lemme see it"
Then I showed it to my boyfriend at the time, and we were laughing about it (Not that it was small, but even if it was I don't judge a guy by his meat shaft.) (Also, I don't think he ended up sending it to the girl, so he ended up showing his penis to 2 gay guys and with no gain...)
But I just thought it was so...idek the word for it, to assume that just cause one person might like his junk, someone else would (not even considering the fact that I was a gay guy and he wanted to show a girl)
But TL;DR - Being gay gives me a lot of things to laugh about, but also annoying things to deal with.
|
|
|
|
|
Banned
Member Since: 3/22/2012
Posts: 26,321
|
Not being able to date hot straight guys, but that wouldn't happen if I were straight either so
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 9/12/2012
Posts: 26,389
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Eyarimu
|
OMG the image url.
But anyways...for some reason I can imagine you waiting for the right oppurtunity to use that gif.
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/2/2012
Posts: 22,450
|
Well, I'm not gay, so...
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 4/13/2012
Posts: 3,017
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Robert
People seeing you as just gay and nothing else. I hate how people completely try to define you by it.
|
well at least it gives people something to remember me by. 
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 9/15/2012
Posts: 5,220
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Honey
Well, I'm not gay, so...
|
Sooo I' ll just leave :P
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/6/2012
Posts: 15,374
|
1. Not living up to the stereotype
2. Liking Gaga too much
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 6/1/2011
Posts: 4,435
|
When your parents say you're ill and that praying for good will heal you.
When your dad wants to take you to a psychologist to "treat" you.
When your parents just explode and ask to god what they did wrong.
Heartbroking 
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 11/27/2008
Posts: 78,826
|
Most of my problems are because of the gay community:
1. I hate that the gay community is for the most part nothing but mean to me - when they basically act like idiot prostitutes have the time they aren't picking on me.
2. I like variety, but I am NOT pleased with the fact that the only people attracted to me are guys that are at least 10 years older than me. People my age just pay me dust, and it's like, I actually AM attracted to dudes my age as well, I mean, COME ON. No lie though, my parents have an 8 year age difference, but still.
3. The fact that STRAIGHT men are nicer to me than gay men are.
4. The fact that gay men judge my life based on my appearance.
5. EVERYONE says my eyes are really pretty or nice, but gay men wouldn't even CARE about my eyes - they only care about my body
6. Getting accused about lying about your age because you don't "look" your age.
7. Wasting texts on a guy that rejects you because they don't find you attractive.
8. Feeling like you're not good enough for a gay guy because they want someone "masculine", and you know you're personality is more feminine.
9. The fact that i feel like I have to use physical force on a gay guy to prove I'm not 100% feminine.
10. The fact that I really don't have a gay friend to talk to even though I know plenty.
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/12/2012
Posts: 65
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Eyarimu
It's not like I'm empty person. I noticed that 90% of us aren't as attractive as straight guys.
|
i really feel sorry for you.
|
|
|
|
|
|
