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Originally posted by anali
i'll never understand this feminism thing of being all offended at men being sexually attracted to you when you act and dress provocatively... i mean i suppose their feelings are valid and all that but it just doesnt make sense to me. i can understand if you're a kid/teenager (though as a teenager I already had some self awareness) and dont realize what you're doing but she's 23.
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Who said the issue is attraction?
Her issue is being seen as an object?
You can't find someone hot and treat them as a person?
Why didn't he say "and Ariana, you're gorgeous too - you guys are a great couple"? If he found her hot, why couldn't he give her a compliment even?
He referred to her as an object in third person to a man and talked about her like a random hole. She's a person, she's not a ****ing sex toy.
We have to stop saying "sex symbol/object" since it's been glorified so people don't view it as dehumanizing and say "but it's a good thing!!". He spoke about her as a sex toy - as a ****ing fleshjack. She's a grown woman and human being. Show some respect.