Depends on how you define virgin for gay guys I think there are a lot of gay guys like myself that have never had penetrative sex but have done the usual other things.
Kinda. I did some "stuff" with my ex but never went all the way, I'm 22.
The thing is, "virginity" means different things to different people. For some it's a big deal for others it's not. I guess for me it is kinda a big deal and that's why I'm waiting, as I don't want it to be with any random person and then regret it. Plus, I suffer from self-esteem issues so until I improve that area in my life then there's no point.
Stop shaming people and telling them when they should pop the cherry. Does it really matter if it's when they're 16 or 26? Straights got to your heads with their social constructs, that's what's really sad here.