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Discussion: "Having sex with men doesn't make you gay..."
Member Since: 5/10/2012
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I'm inclined to agree
Sexuality is not as rigid as society makes it out to be
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Member Since: 2/8/2012
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I mean, if you're a guy and have a desire to **** another guy, you're at the very least bi.
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Member Since: 6/15/2012
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It makes u a ***, accept it and move on, fat.
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Member Since: 7/23/2010
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Originally posted by inspiration4
None of this is true.
BISEXUAL men in prison and in Arab countries are the one's that are engaging in same-sex relations.
True straight men aren't anymore willing to **** with a guy than a gay guy is a woman. Zero interest.
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Sexually repressed straight men don't have same-sex RELATIONS with another men, only same-sex INTERCOURSE. That's just situational homosexual behavior. It is a sexual behavior that is different from that which the person normally exhibits, due to a social environment that in some way permits, encourages, or compels the behavior. This can also include situations where a person's usual sexual behavior may not be possible, so rather than not engaging in sexual activity at all, they may engage in different sexual behaviors.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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It's all about attraction. If the person is sexually attracted to the same gender then they are not straight and vice versa.
If all they want is to get off with anything, not because they like the way you look and want to **** you, then congrats! You're a glorified fleshjack!
Also love/who they want to be romantic with, has nothing to do with sexuality. So, those saying crap like: "I like having sex with guys, but can never see myself in a romantic relationship with one." Are still not straight, no matter how much they want to be.
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Member Since: 3/3/2011
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No, it just means you aren't straight. Bisexuality exists, friends.
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by fabbriche
Sexually repressed straight men don't have same-sex RELATIONS with another men, only same-sex INTERCOURSE. That's just situational homosexual behavior. It is a sexual behavior that is different from that which the person normally exhibits, due to a social environment that in some way permits, encourages, or compels the behavior. This can also include situations where a person's usual sexual behavior may not be possible, so rather than not engaging in sexual activity at all, they may engage in different sexual behaviors.
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True...like when straight men go to prison, then have male on male sex because they can't do it with females.
Of course some never convert back when they get out...
I mean I suppose you can experiment, then decide you don't like it...and live life on the straight n narrow. But if you are in a committed relationship with a female, but just do guys on the side...you not straight, that makes you bisexual.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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I want to support this article but it's not true at all.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Raster
I think you're "gay" when you can see yourself spending your life with another person of the same sex and feeling happy. Sexual preferences are complicated and it's unfair to label someone because of their preferences.
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so if a woman doesnt want to spend her life with a husband and some kids she's not straight? her sexual preference says it, she's straight. its not about wanting to spend your life with someone. some people dont want to marry anyone, does that make them asexual? of course your sex preferences define if you're gay or not
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Member Since: 3/6/2011
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Originally posted by Mettaton
It's all about attraction. If the person is sexually attracted to the same gender then they are not straight and vice versa.
If all they want is to get off with anything, not because they like the way you look and want to **** you, then congrats! You're a glorified fleshjack!
Also love/who they want to be romantic with, has nothing to do with sexuality. So, those saying crap like: "I like having sex with guys, but can never see myself in a romantic relationship with one." Are still not straight, no matter how much they want to be.
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omg tea.
I get ppl not wanting to label themselves and all, but to say "I'm not gay bc i don't like that label" when in the same breath they wanna label themselves as straight is sooo hypocritical.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Truth Teller
Why are we so afraid of words? Like, yeah, I get that labeling yourself too much is restricting and, often, unnecessary, but we can't hide from a simple self description. No, if you enjoy sex with someone of the same gender, you're not heterosexual. And there's nothing wrong with that. Don't know if you're "gay" or "bi" or "fluent" or whatever, but you're not straight.
Maybe I'm being too narrow minded about it, idk. But the whole concept of having sex with a guy and saying "nah, I'm not gay, cause I don't actually love him or wanna be with him" sounds so ridiculous to me, idk.
And I never got this mindset either
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exactly
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Member Since: 8/6/2015
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Originally posted by Beyonnaise
Articles like these reek of bi erasure. Like, shocker, a man can be something other than gay or straight.
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This. I mean experimenting once is different, but a lot of the time people use the word experimenting cause they are afraid of the word gay or bi and try to maintain some macho image. SMH
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Member Since: 10/21/2011
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I dont know why, but i dont believe in bi people
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Member Since: 4/6/2014
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Plenty of closeted men
nick jonas
have sex with women, it doesn't make them any less gay.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Hey atrl, sexual orientations are social constructs and they're all lies.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Having sex with men, selectively, makes you a homoSEXUAL. If you want to argue about the romantic implications, that's something else. But in the traditional sense, no hun, u gay.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Selenurr
I think the term we're searching for here is "Heteroromantic Bisexual".
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You're right. People seem to think that sexual and romantic attraction are the same thing when in fact they are very different.
OT: It doesn't, people need to stop being so rigid with labels. Also the guys like this are usually pretty hot .
xox
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Funnily enough most of the female members in here are open-minded about this topic where as a lot of the gay male members don't seem to be. Hmmm.
xox
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