Yeah. I have. The usual white men who treat black men as a fetish, a couple of guys on grindr messaged me FIRST saying that they're "not into dark meat" and that "before I messaged them they had something they needed to explain"
It's always a kii when they also go off on some little rant about how tor what hey don't like about black men, and throws in a little compliment towards me as if I'm still not going to be offended
There was one ATRLer, dayydream, who called me the n word on snapchat, and then again after I deleted him on snap
Also, that little incident with kyleaustin when he wrote on my wall telling me not to date a white man because I would **** up our baby's hair.
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Originally posted by Outlaws
This whole thread full of generalizations, full of "they think's" and stuff.. Oh, well... Not surprised, it's ATRL after all.
Anyway, yeas. Most of all have at a certain moment of our lives. |
Let's not talk generalizations when you called every black person who took offense to being called the n word an "n-word warrior" and calling them all insecure. Stop getting mad at and downplaying PoC when making valid complaints and observe what's going on in the community that we're apart. It's extremely insensitive.
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Originally posted by DAP
Mostly backhanded compliments like "you're not like most black guys" and "you're cute for a black dude"
But one time I had one dude on Grindr pm me " you got a jungle booty that I need to tame".
That was IT for me on Grindr. You all can have that pit  |
OH ****ING NO
That's a new one I'm SCREAMING
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Originally posted by Scotty
im white and fairly attractive i'd say, guys on grindr who aren't white try to bait me into being racist toward them all the time, it's pretty sad
it's not much different than ATRL
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How is someone going to bait you into being racist
By existing?
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Originally posted by Sunshine.
nlk;j;;;
Too many times to count. On one of the last times I used Grindr, the guy messaged ME (at this point I had stopped putting my picture/race on my profile in hopes that through conversation, my personality could win for once), and we had a decent conversation, but as soon as we exchanged pictures, he stopped replying. 
I already knew the reason, but i wanted to confirm nicely. So I asked him, without being pointed, if I wasn't his "type", and he finally replied "yea, sorry. not what I'm looking for." And i replied. "Okay. Thanks for replying. Good luck!"
fff. I may not be HOT, but I don't think I'm ugly... I mean...this was the picture I sent him...
http://i.imgur.com/MV8Tjo0.jpg?3
So I kinda just stopped w/ Grindr because of it. After 2 years of getting rejected mostly cause of my race. I went from proactively messaging guys, to not messaging guys, to removing my image, to removing my race, to just giving up.
Some things just aren't worth it.  |
Girl ignore them. You are GORGEOUS
They can stay mad and ugleee
