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TV Show: Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 8
Member Since: 6/5/2011
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Originally posted by dman4life
I'm not liking how all the dickmatized ladies were trying to make this Kenya's fault. Yeah she antagonized him a little but I'm quite sure he would've still went left if Kenya hadn't even said one word to him, he was too damn aggressive for no reason. Kandi also stated that he made her very uncomfortable and it seems Porsha was the only one to acknowledge that.
As much as I lived for Kim getting Kenya together at the end I feel like she did way too much, the man would've been there and kept on being disrespectful if Kenya hadn't made the decision for him to leave. Not to mention she was just crying to Phaedra about missing her husband and kids and all Kenya did was bring it back up. It just seemed like she just wanted an excuse to turn up on Kenya
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Sheree was just liking the attention and ignoring all the signs. Kenya messed with him on the boat by snapping but it wasn't that serious and that was it as far as we know...they played the game and everything was cool. Kenya didn't even say anything to him. It's like he was trying to prove his manhood..it was strange. Getting snappy with Kandi and talking trash in the Jacuzzi.
I like Kim..but it's like just say you don't like Kenya. It's obvious..she keep trying to make excuses of things Kenya does but Kenya did not cause that man to push Tammy down or snap on Kandi or go buckwild on security.
Kenya just spoke up. Kim also wanted an excuse to leave from the beginning so Kenya was right you were crying everyday about missing your kid/man...Glen was just an excuse to leave. None of those dudes were worried about Kim anyways ..Kandi didn't even leave that night and she was pregnant.
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Member Since: 12/22/2011
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Originally posted by kishi
Porsha's man from Venezuela is gorgeous. So happy to live in South Florida where the beautiful men of the Caribbean and Latin America are in abundance.
Kim is sort of Phaedra's puppet, but you know Phaedra loves to have allies and team up against her "enemies".
Tammy hasn't shown me that she's crazy like she's being made out to be. I do like her presence.
Because she's not afraid to approach and confront. Plus it's a show.
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Yes, you don't have to be in fear for your life to attempt to approach someone and ask them to leave...especially on camera where you might feel it's best that it's recorded. It's called reasoning.
that said, these people know that it's a show...they are essentially not wanting to side with Kenya and finding any way out of it by downplaying and finding other reasons.
It does show how many people are willing to accept an aggressive man's actions.
So many people make excuses but the reality is that we are responsible for our actions.
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Member Since: 12/22/2011
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Originally posted by mermaid_ariel
Sheree was just liking the attention and ignoring all the signs. Kenya messed with him on the boat by snapping but it wasn't that serious and that was it as far as we know...they played the game and everything was cool. Kenya didn't even say anything to him. It's like he was trying to prove his manhood..it was strange. Getting snappy with Kandi and talking trash in the Jacuzzi.
I like Kim..but it's like just say you don't like Kenya. It's obvious..she keep trying to make excuses of things Kenya does but Kenya did not cause that man to push Tammy down or snap on Kandi or go buckwild on security.
Kenya just spoke up. Kim also wanted an excuse to leave from the beginning so Kenya was right you were crying everyday about missing your kid/man...Glen was just an excuse to leave. None of those dudes were worried about Kim anyways ..Kandi didn't even leave that night and she was pregnant.
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tea. Keep spilling.
I don't put too much stock into twitter but I'll be damned many people didn't fall for the anti kenya movement and saw right through it.
Pleasantly surprised.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by slw84
Yes, you don't have to be in fear for your life to attempt to approach someone and ask them to leave...especially on camera where you might feel it's best that it's recorded. It's called reasoning.
that said, these people know that it's a show...they are essentially not wanting to side with Kenya and finding any way out of it by downplaying and finding other reasons.
It does show how many people are willing to accept an aggressive man's actions.
So many people make excuses but the reality is that we are responsible for our actions.
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All of this.
At the end of the day this is a reality show. Kenya did her best to not break the fourth wall but in the end she had no choice. Glen approached her aggressively and she had to respond.
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Member Since: 5/25/2011
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Originally posted by mermaid_ariel
Sheree was just liking the attention and ignoring all the signs. Kenya messed with him on the boat by snapping but it wasn't that serious and that was it as far as we know...they played the game and everything was cool. Kenya didn't even say anything to him. It's like he was trying to prove his manhood..it was strange. Getting snappy with Kandi and talking trash in the Jacuzzi.
I like Kim..but it's like just say you don't like Kenya. It's obvious..she keep trying to make excuses of things Kenya does but Kenya did not cause that man to push Tammy down or snap on Kandi or go buckwild on security.
Kenya just spoke up. Kim also wanted an excuse to leave from the beginning so Kenya was right you were crying everyday about missing your kid/man...Glen was just an excuse to leave. None of those dudes were worried about Kim anyways ..Kandi didn't even leave that night and she was pregnant.
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Yeah basically what I said LOL. He was so aggressive with the women for no reason. I'm definitely with Kenya on this one.
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Member Since: 12/22/2011
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Originally posted by Robbyyy
Well then if she's not afraid why pull the concerned uncomfortable white lady act?
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white lady act???
Wow, at you not seeing anything wrong with this prejudice but I'm not understanding how people don't understand that there are levels to this. Not everyone wants to pretend to be a gangster and about that life and ready to bust caps in someone that gets out of line with them.
A spider on the ground might frighten me a bit but I wouldn't place it in the same category as someone flailing a gun around while under the influence of heavy drugs.
There's fear in both but they are not on the same level.
I think you can have fear and apprehension yet still understand and hope that reasoning will remedy a situation.
I think Kenya took the adult approach asking him to leave since there were enough instances where he was getting too aggressive toward a woman.
I'm just glad she didn't use her over the top schtick to faint or do something that would make her come off disingenuous in her reservations to keep in on the premises
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Member Since: 5/25/2011
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Originally posted by slw84
tea. Keep spilling.
I don't put too much stock into twitter but I'll be damned many people didn't fall for the anti kenya movement and saw right through it.
Pleasantly surprised.
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Hey boo you need to look at my previous posts on the last page, I actually sided with Kenya for once LOL!
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Member Since: 12/22/2011
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Originally posted by dman4life
Yeah basically what I said LOL. He was so aggressive with the women for no reason. I'm definitely with Kenya on this one.
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I can respect you for demonstrating objectivity in this situation.
For you to side with Kenya means that you are being honest because you wouldn't side with her unless you felt she was justified.
Britney stans always win.
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Member Since: 12/22/2011
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Originally posted by dman4life
Hey boo you need to look at my previous posts on the last page, I actually sided with Kenya for once LOL!
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Britney stans always win.
We're tough.
We're smart.
We're objective.
I respect you more for not supporting the movement of comparing this to a real tragedy.
Phaedra should be ashamed for that one.
I don't even blame sheree and porsha for jumping on that bandwagon because they don't like Kenya either. sheree is frenemies so it's understood she will throw kenya under the bus as soon as she can.
Except, Porsha shouldn't have made the comment that no one had an issue with him...but she might not have known about the kandi situation.
Not sure why calling women a b word or a w word wouldn't fit into having a problem. I'd take offense if I were a woman being called a b word or w word by a man I hadn't known for 1 whole day
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I can't believe they had the downright audacity to try and make it seem as if Kenya was to blame for that mans actions. No, no one is ever responsible for such behaviour, especially towards women. He was being an absolute ass right from the minute he stepped on the boat to when they were all in the jacuzzi. The way he spoke to Kandi, a pregnant woman, was absolutely shocking and just disgusting. I'm so glad Kandi actually stuck up for Kenya for once.
Kim trying to check Kenya at the restaurant was the most ridiculous moment of all. It seems to me as if Kenya knew Kim was going to come for her but had already decided to keep calm and let her talk her ****. Kenya was over it.
I can't even begin to tell you how disappointed I am in Kim. I do wonder if she watched the episode back and rethought her position, because she didn't even see everything that actually went on. I'm anticipating the reunion to see if her position has changed.
Phaedra and Sheree - Let me not. Phaedra will never stop coming for Kenya no matter what, she still holds a massive grudge and it's never going away.
Porsha grew massively on me this episode. I expected her to blame Kenya for what happened but she just kept her mouth shut and kept it moving. Massive respect for her.
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Member Since: 5/25/2011
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Originally posted by slw84
Britney stans always win.
We're tough.
We're smart.
We're objective.
I respect you more for not supporting the movement of comparing this to a real tragedy.
Phaedra should be ashamed for that one.
I don't even blame sheree and porsha for jumping on that bandwagon because they don't like Kenya either. sheree is frenemies so it's understood she will throw kenya under the bus as soon as she can.
Except, Porsha shouldn't have made the comment that no one had an issue with him...but she might not have known about the kandi situation.
Not sure why calling women a b word or a w word wouldn't fit into having a problem. I'd take offense if I were a woman being called a b word or w word by a man I hadn't known for 1 whole day
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Yeah I was literally so confused when they all started to pin it on Kenya. Except Porsha gets the benefit of doubt from me since she was off to the side with Oliver and didn't witness the Kandi situation and she probably through Kenya was just being her usual over the top self. I actually had to rewind it back to see if Kenya was wrong and couldn't find anything. Kim just needs to admit she doesn't care for Kenya and be done with it, they must have had some type of bad blood back in the 90s
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Ok.
Not excited to see Don Juan do the most next episode. I really dislike his messy ass.
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Member Since: 12/22/2011
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Originally posted by dman4life
Yeah I was literally so confused when they all started to pin it on Kenya. Except Porsha gets the benefit of doubt from me since she was off to the side with Oliver and didn't witness the Kandi situation and she probably through Kenya was just being her usual over the top self. I actually had to rewind it back to see if Kenya was wrong and couldn't find anything. Kim just needs to admit she doesn't care for Kenya and be done with it, they must have had some type of bad blood back in the 90s
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Understandable. I don't think Kim had an issue with her from the past because of their initial interactions.
I DO think that Kim being phaedra's friend has allowed potential off camera conversations help shape her opinions toward Kenya. Add on what happened at the boat trip and now Kim has a perception of Kenya in her mind. The over the top kicking shamea off the boat (I would have done it too but it was still over the top) mixed with phaedra in her year and the "instigation" probably has Kim acting they way she was.
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Member Since: 12/22/2011
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Originally posted by Bey Admired
I can't believe they had the downright audacity to try and make it seem as if Kenya was to blame for that mans actions. No, no one is ever responsible for such behaviour, especially towards women. He was being an absolute ass right from the minute he stepped on the boat to when they were all in the jacuzzi. The way he spoke to Kandi, a pregnant woman, was absolutely shocking and just disgusting. I'm so glad Kandi actually stuck up for Kenya for once.
Kim trying to check Kenya at the restaurant was the most ridiculous moment of all. It seems to me as if Kenya knew Kim was going to come for her but had already decided to keep calm and let her talk her ****. Kenya was over it.
I can't even begin to tell you how disappointed I am in Kim. I do wonder if she watched the episode back and rethought her position, because she didn't even see everything that actually went on. I'm anticipating the reunion to see if her position has changed.
Phaedra and Sheree - Let me not. Phaedra will never stop coming for Kenya no matter what, she still holds a massive grudge and it's never going away.
Porsha grew massively on me this episode. I expected her to blame Kenya for what happened but she just kept her mouth shut and kept it moving. Massive respect for her.
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agreed.
I still like Kim and even when wrong I like how she gives it to Kenya because most of these other girls are either weak or less than smart so it makes it easy for Kenya to outmaneuver.
to me, she is not giving me any reason to think she is a good fit for the show but it goes back to my original feelings.
Kim, get on this show for ONE season get your name out there and create some new business opportunities and chuck deuces at bravo.
If she had a little regine hunter in her I'd say she had the perfect amount of sass to go with balancing her mom duties but this show will only make things worse if she continues.
Yeah Kenya BESTED Phaedra and phaedra will never let it go. that's her monkey to carry on her back.
Yeah I'm not going too hard on Porsha as much because i felt she could have gone further but she kept it cute for the most part.
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I decided to stop watching Real Housewives of Atlanta back in whatever season it was when everyone was praising Phaedra for that tacky sperm bank read against Kenya. I thought it was so gross and insensitive and was done with the show. But I just happened to tune into last night's episode....and it is a reminder of EXACTLY why this show has become complete trash.
Kenya is messy all day, we all know that, but the fact that everyone on the show (and fans in real life) have the audacity to blame KENYA for Glen's VIOLENT behavior is really unsettling to me. That man ended up assaulting his own aunt on national television, what makes those women think he wouldn't have torn into them as well? What did this man have to do to make the rest of the group agree that his behavior was unacceptable?
He was being disrespectful from the jump, calling them all types of "bitches" and "hoes" and they sat there and just took it. But when Kenya (who was completely co-signed by Kandi) speaks up, they want to blame her for this GROWN MAN'S actions? And for Phaedra and Sheree to even begin to twist their mouths to compare this incident to Mike Brown and #BlackLivesMatter....Disgusting. These ladies dislike another woman SO MUCH that they are willing to excuse violence against other women to justify it, and it's crazy to me how some of the fans echo the same sentiment. Bravo and the entire cast should be ashamed of this situation.
And on top of all that... the casual homophobia they showed in next week's episode is enough to ensure that I won't be tuning in again. The show was fun back in the early seasons, but it's just so gross now.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by ozlovezashlee
A mess. You're acting like Kenya came at him all disrespectful. She asked him to leave, and then HE CHOSE to push Tammy. I'm not saying Kenya is a saint, but the only reason Tammy ended up on the floor is because her "nephew" is clearly aggressive.
And his "I'm going to kill you comment."
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Well, I'm not saying Kenya is to blame for his disrespect or whatever but she already told Tammy and she said okay she's gonna handle it. Kenya should've went right on up to her room with the rest of the girls knowing security wouldnt have let anything happen.
And I'm not just saying this because it's Kenya but bottom line, if it was anyone, it would have been wrong. Kenya knew what she was doing as ALL the drama surrounds HER and is caused because of HER and HER comments. Glen was telling her off on the boat but didn't do anything about it.
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Originally posted by Robbyyy
Ok.
Not excited to see Don Juan do the most next episode. I really dislike his messy ass.
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Yeah his hyperactivity is giving me red flags.
Kandi did use that term geeked up a few seasons back.
It's like he's half annoyed at the nonsense that is this show but also wants to be on it.
He is ready for his close up...but i'm not.
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Originally posted by Rihhyonce
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Kenya is messy all day, we all know that, but the fact that everyone on the show (and fans in real life) have the audacity to blame KENYA for Glen's VIOLENT behavior is really unsettling to me. That man ended up assaulting his own aunt on national television, what makes those women think he wouldn't have torn into them as well? What did this man have to do to make the rest of the group agree that his behavior was unacceptable?
He was being disrespectful from the jump, calling them all types of "bitches" and "hoes" and they sat there and just took it. But when Kenya (who was completely co-signed by Kandi) speaks up, they want to blame her for this GROWN MAN'S actions? And for Phaedra and Sheree to even begin to twist their mouths to compare this incident to Mike Brown and #BlackLivesMatter....Disgusting. These ladies dislike another woman SO MUCH that they are willing to excuse violence against other women to justify it, and it's crazy to me how some of the fans echo the same sentiment. Bravo and the entire cast should be ashamed of this situation.
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i SCREAMED at the bolded part. I'm lowkey thinking that half of them couldn't defend against it with their side jobs which made me scream a little bit.
Yeah but that's the culture. Blame a black man's actions on a woman if possible. It's a shame.
Yeah Phaedra and Sheree were petty for that mike brown comparison.
I'm just glad Kandi backed Kenya up and that many people in social media saw right through sheree and phaedra's antics.
I saw one comment that said
Tonight's synopsis: A woman got blamed for a man's trangressions...by a group of ladies.
Sums it up quite nicely. The only real ladies are Kenya and kandi with this situation (porsha gets a little minor pass for me).
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Member Since: 4/30/2012
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Originally posted by slw84
i SCREAMED at the bolded part. I'm lowkey thinking that half of them couldn't defend against it with their side jobs which made me scream a little bit.
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Yeah but that's the culture. Blame a black man's actions on a woman if possible. It's a shame.
Yeah Phaedra and Sheree were petty for that mike brown comparison.
I'm just glad Kandi backed Kenya up and that many people in social media saw right through sheree and phaedra's antics.
I saw one comment that said
Tonight's synopsis: A woman got blamed for a man's trangressions...by a group of ladies.
Sums it up quite nicely. The only real ladies are Kenya and kandi with this situation (porsha gets a little minor pass for me).
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That's why I actually am a bit curious to see how they'll spin it at the reunion. That'll be an interesting conversation to watch, and hopefully after seeing the episode the girls will back Kenya.
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I cannot believe Phaedra and Kim this episode!
First of all, I want to congratulate Kenya for actually doing the RIGHT thing, and also Kandi for sticking up to her when everyone was thinking it wasn't such a big deal. Second, Phaedra, how dare you turn this into a #BlackLivesMatter issue? He was clearly aggressive towards ALL the women, you would've noticed that if you weren't thirsty for a man around you. Last, Kim, really? Blaming Kenya? She is not to be faulted for anyone else's behavior, especially when he was already acting like that for no reason.
How was the reaction on the internet? Who's side were people on? I hope Kenya cause child, if not...
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