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Someone even posted that they wouldn't date a fem, because if they wanted a bitch they would date a woman
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I used to have this mentality 5-6 years ago. I thought of feminine, gay men as over-the-top, dramatic, messy, too fiesty, etc.; I often thought about whether or not I would be secure enough, or comfortable enough, to put up with someone like that, seeing as I'm more on the chill, introverted, not-so-enthusiastic-about-everything side. (Crazy thing is, it's not like I'm fully masculine either, though I'm not as feminine as I was as a minor. So, in a way, I guess that proves your point). My perception, and mentality, has definitely changed though.