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Originally posted by Guernica
would you rather force yourself into an uncomfortable and awkward position with some random person you don't really care about just so you can "get it over with" or would you rather wait a little longer and do it with someone that actually matters to you
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+1000
I'm 25 and I'm a virgin and I've had several opportunities to lose my virginity but I never felt anything for them, and I'd rather lose it to someone I care about than someone who means nothing to me. It's not a case of "I'm so ugly, no one wants to **** me", it's a case of wanting to have sex with someone I only care about and not someone who I'll have a drunken one-night-stand with and whose name I won't remember the next morning.
There's Grindr, cruising or sex parties in London but they're dangerous and I don't know if I can trust them and they won't either beat me up or try and stealth me and infect me with HIV.
So I'd rather wait and be sure, than to rush it and have Gods knows what happen to me. It's my body, my life, my choice (just like some choose to be vegan) and I'll do what I wanna when I wanna.