Do any of you actually even live in these big cities? They're great places to shop, tour & sight-see, and have fun in, but make a living? Um, unless you're making over 100K a year, you're probably going to find yourself living a ****** neighborhood and burdened by high prices, bad traffic, and TONS of crime.
"Big City, Bright Lights" does not necessarily equal quality lifestyle. Personally, I grew up in a upper-middle class suburban area that was pretty quiet and loved it (except I never really had many Black friends

) And right now, I'd like to spend some time in one of these cities, but when I'm getting married and starting a family, I plan on settling down in a place just as similar.