[Suga Mama]

Originally posted by Zaney82

Were a condom
Have a ton of sex
explore explore explore
Don't fall in love fast
join a college group
expect you heart to be broken and your ex to turn into a massive bitch who will sleep with your best friend , and be prepared to sleep with his best friend
Get a *** hag to take you to a gay club and then ditch her

I'll definitely remember this all. How are gay clubs like? I'm afraid that since I would be new walking in everyone would watch me and look me up and down. Do guys buy you drinks, do they try to get in your pants quick, etc?

[Zaney82]

Originally posted by IBeMe

you convo about how young love is so frivolous is making me depressed lol!

I believe that love exists but although I may be young I do realize that a person needs to get their own lives together before sharing it with someone else. not speeding things up and also not expecting to much in a relationship and balancing things out is key to a long lasting one. not every younger gay person just falls head over heals and is obsessed guys

but I respect the fact that you guys have more experience in all that stuff so im sure you guys know more about making a relationship last longer when it comes down to it right?

Looking bad I'm really glad I had a ton of sex , some boyfriends and now dating again (which is a new experience) , I do think heading into a relationship esp a gay one is so much better in your 30's. I will look back at my life and be like good and bad , I GAVE LIFE and Lived life well.

[Im sleep]

I hate straight girls who be in gay bars like gtfo.

[J a y]

Originally posted by IBeMe

you convo about how young love is so frivolous is making me depressed lol!

I believe that love exists but although I may be young I do realize that a person needs to get their own lives together before sharing it with someone else. not speeding things up and also not expecting to much in a relationship and balancing things out is key to a long lasting one. not every younger gay person just falls head over heals and is obsessed guys

but I respect the fact that you guys have more experience in all that stuff so im sure you guys know more about making a relationship last longer when it comes down to it right?

It's not that it's frivolous, it's that you're young and sexy. Go out and have lots of sex, party, make friends etc.

Honestly you'll have so much more time down the line to date and fall in love when you're working and settled.

It's the same with straight people, but gay people have such a great world to explore

[Zaney82]

Originally posted by Suga Mama

I'll definitely remember this all. How are gay clubs like? I'm afraid that since I would be new walking in everyone would watch me and look me up and down. Do guys buy you drinks, do they try to get in your pants quick, etc?

Gay clubs can be the best places in the world however they can be the most depressing as well. Most of the time you walk in and meet with eye rolls or get treated like a piece of meat.

Guys will try and get you to buy them a drink (dirty dance with you) and you buy them a drink , kiss and they piss off. lol

[Zaney82]

Originally posted by Im sleep

I hate straight girls who be in gay bars like gtfo.

NOOOOOO we need girls in there sometime , if you don't like a guy , you grab a girl and pretend she is your girl.

They are like green plants in a fish tank, they filter the fish **** :-)

[J a y]

Originally posted by Zaney82

Gay clubs can be the best places in the world however they can be the most depressing as well. Most of the time you walk in and meet with eye rolls or get treated like a piece of meat.

Ugh, it was like that when I first arrived in Soho at the age of 16. It was soooo scary, everyone was on me like flies on ****.

People were looking cos I was young and cute. Touching me, buying me drinks and trying their best to charm me.

[IBeMe]

Originally posted by J a y

It's not that it's frivolous, it's that you're young and sexy. Go out and have lots of sex, party, make friends etc.

Honestly you'll have so much more time down the line to date and fall in love when you're working and settled.

It's the same with straight people, but gay people have such a great world to explore

oh ok I get it! so like encouraging me to have fun before getting all serious and what not lol! you know what your prob right..I might look back and regret not having tried more things when I was younger lol!!

[BadBitches]

UKK, home of the gays

[IBeMe]

omg Zaney82 and J A Y you guys are legit the best, im learning so much from your posts! it makes me feel a bit less nervous/anxious/scared when I know more about the gay scene and what not ! also the tip about the straight girls at a club OMG i LAUGHED in real life! lol!

[Zaney82]

Originally posted by BadBitches

UKK, home of the gays

All with bad teeth , oh!!! the sores I had on my penis from the teeth marks... JOKES

[Suga Mama]

Originally posted by Zaney82

Gay clubs can be the best places in the world however they can be the most depressing as well. Most of the time you walk in and meet with eye rolls or get treated like a piece of meat.

Guys will try and get you to buy them a drink (dirty dance with you) and you buy them a drink , kiss and they piss off. lol

How does it work though when you're under 21? Can someone still easily buy me a drink?

[Zaney82]

Originally posted by IBeMe

omg Zaney82 and J A Y you guys are legit the best, im learning so much from your posts! it makes me feel a bit less nervous/anxious/scared when I know more about the gay scene and what not ! also the tip about the straight girls at a club OMG i LAUGHED in real life! lol!

Live your life , enjoy being young! Get your heartbroken and don't kill yourself. Life is worth it

[Suga Mama]

Originally posted by IBeMe

omg Zaney82 and J A Y you guys are legit the best, im learning so much from your posts! it makes me feel a bit less nervous/anxious/scared when I know more about the gay scene and what not ! also the tip about the straight girls at a club OMG i LAUGHED in real life! lol!

This! Honestly, thanks for all the help and answering questions. I'm literally gonna live by it once I move out in a few months.

[BudBud]

Just download grindr sis .

[Zaney82]

Originally posted by Suga Mama

How does it work though when you're under 21? Can someone still easily buy me a drink?

Oh yeah , here is Australia you only need to be 18. Yeah well I think you will find that some boys will be like come give me a BJ and then 10 mins like they will be like "Oh you're still here?"

[BadBitches]

Originally posted by BudBud

Just download grindr sis .

You better be good looking sis, cause half the people on that app are snobs.

[J a y]

Originally posted by IBeMe

oh ok I get it! so like encouraging me to have fun before getting all serious and what not lol! you know what your prob right..I might look back and regret not having tried more things when I was younger lol!!

You can do whatever you want. But the cold reality is that love may not last at such a young age and you have your life ahead of you. Keep your eyes open, of course date people, but try and make fun your main priority. Friends last forever - exes don't.

[Zaney82]

Originally posted by BadBitches

You better be good looking sis, cause half the people on that app are snobs.

Really , I have 100+ messages on there atm , must be a location thing

[IBeMe]

Originally posted by Suga Mama

This! Honestly, thanks for all the help and answering questions. I'm literally gonna live by it once I move out in a few months.

right?! omg good luck to you sistren tho! I hope we don't fail at our debut into the whole gay scene/clubs/etc

its all about the debut album tbh