[Su-Barbie-A]

It's funny when you see butchy gays that go to the gym and say "mas4masc" yet they become a "fem" when the top enters through their backdoor.

But can we talk about who decided what is "feminine" and what is "masculine"?

[Drais.]

I could kinda see why it would upset some people, but the whole point of a being a gay man is to not be attracted to a woman, so it shouldn't be weird that some men would be turned off and not attracted to anything remotely feminine which would include feminine men.

[jcsfreebitch]

Originally posted by Mhs90

++++++++++1

Just not into the dramatics. No thank you. Even worse when it's a twink. I want meat.



Someone's pressed.

Pressed? A hockey player just left my room, I'm far from pressed at the moment. I'm talking about guys who have to get really intense/worked up about it, and "prove" to people that they like masc things. Just be yourself.

[Mhs90]

Originally posted by inspiration4

Bing bing bing.

The funny thing is, I bet the one's making the most noise have a preference that they see nothing wrong with... They probably even have it on their grindr about

The vocal ones in this threads are always the first one to go crazy over some muscle dude on an ATRL thread or the POST YOUR PIC thread. Everyone has a taste. Leave it at that. My dick has no response when I see a boy acting extremely lady-like. That doesn't mean I don't have the capacity to be friends with them.

[Artemisia]

Originally posted by King B

Personal preference?

Originally posted by Mhs90

It's just a preference. Nothing asshole-ish about it.

Try internalized homophobia. I've never seen someone outright say 'NO FEMS' and leave it at just that. It's always followed by a stream of ****.

[Flame]

Originally posted by Joaquin Ignacio

more than half of the gay community, that's why I made this thread

Originally posted by I Am Music

Too many unfortunately.

It was a rhetorical question. I do agree though.

[Rihannamar]

I wouldn't mind as long as he's cute.

[Musickid203]

Originally posted by I Am Music

It's an issue because some masculine men want to make things extra by belittling a guy with feminine qualities. It doesn't make you more of a man for acting like an asshole quite the contrary.

In homophobics eyes it's no different since you're sleeping with another man masculine or not. So projecting ones own bias onto others with words like "If I wanted to date a woman I would' makes you look ridiculous.

Everyone is not gonna date every single person and they don't have to. But have some respect and stop acting like your manly qualities are better than those who don't have them.

I completely agree.

Downplaying a guy with feminine qualities is unacceptable. There isn't too much we could do with homophobes, that's a problem within them.

This is just my personal opinion tho, I don't want a guy walking around with leggings holding a purse and acting like a female. Just not an attraction to me.

[VyktorJonas]

Originally posted by lancelovesgaga

because a lot of them are dick heads


they're the type to cry for marriage and then be all like "no fatties no fem"


i love fem boys. and i hate how disrespected some gays are from others..especially those freaky masc guys

this.
that's why I love Louis

[Harmonic Dreamer]

Originally posted by inspiration4

Why do you need for everyone to want to have sex with you... or date you?

That's the bigger problem. You're insecurity.

I'm not insecure at all. I don't want everyone to have sex with me.
Where are YOU pulling these things from? It's more than just sex. I'm speaking from life experiences, through friends, family members, peers, associates, ect.

It's not just sex. I'm fine in that department.

[inspiration4]

Serious Question:


How many of you would be willing to call out a female for not wanting a feminine guy?

EXACTLY. You'd see nothing wrong with it.

Why is any different for guys attracted to...wait for it.... MEN?

[Cyanide]

Same people in here angry that some gays aren't into dating WOMEN are the ones saying "the ones saying they are masc are usually bottoms, they are insecure, homophobic" etc. That's really funny to me.

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by Mhs90

The vocal ones in this threads are always the first one to go crazy over some muscle dude on an ATRL thread or the POST YOUR PIC thread. Everyone has a taste. Leave it at that. My dick has no response when I see a boy acting extremely lady-like. That doesn't mean I don't have the capacity to be friends with them.

I like this approach and the posts here are talking about the ones who think feminine men are inferior. Which is a problem.

[Mhs90]

Originally posted by jcsfreebitch

Pressed? A hockey player just left my room, I'm far from pressed at the moment. I'm talking about guys who have to get really intense/worked up about it, and "prove" to people that they like masc things. Just be yourself.

I am being myself when I say I'm only attracted to masc guys.

How I act doesn't have to align with your liking. The degree of masculinity and feminity in a person isn't controlled. And even if it is, that person is probably in the closet so let it be. They are most comfortable at that level. Not the case for you, but for them it might be.

[ZachM]

Hmmm...some of the hypocrisy in here...
Y'all saying "Well there's a deeper issue if a guy is masculine" and "the more masculine acting ones are just cowards" etc etc like...is it not cool to just act like you feel like acting? I understand judging someone for being masculine or feminine isn't okay on either end of the spectrum but Jesus H. Christ, why can't y'all just let people act how they wanna act without it being a psychological issue or terrible?
And let people have their preferences. I mean as long as you're not putting someone down for acting a certain way, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference. Everyone has them.
But also not at some people thinking feminine dudes are annoying...like...what? What's wrong with that? They're just being themselves and having fun, and as long as they're not annoying in general then there's nothing wrong with it. Some of these gays doing the most...

[Icarus]

Originally posted by Artemisia

Try internalized homophobia.

So all gays should be attracted to feminine guys, or they're homophobic? Wonderful.

[BadBoy]

I need MACHOS!!

[Jameson Teqkilla]

Masc4Masc ONLY NO FEMS!!!!

I wonder if I'd get more replies on Grindr if I made that my profile

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by Musickid203

I completely agree.

Downplaying a guy with feminine qualities is unacceptable. There isn't too much we could do with homophobes, that's a problem within them.

This is just my personal opinion tho, I don't want a guy walking around with leggings holding a purse and acting like a female. Just not an attraction to me.

And that's your right. I too am personally interested in men more on the masculine side but have dated a guy who was in the middle. But I have befriended fem guys and would never think less of them.

[Flame]

I don't think all masculine guys are actually just bottoms and are probably more bitchy than most gays. It's the ones who promote how masculine they are and how much they hate other gays that are usually like that. If you're just being you and you aren't being a dick about it, then it usually doesn't mean anything. You can have your preference, but don't be a **** about it.