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Discussion: Are You Pro Life or Pro Choice?
Member Since: 8/17/2010
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Originally posted by Nii.
Babies have been born, fetuses are zygotes.
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Thank you for illustrating what I've been trying to say through this entire thread. 
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Member Since: 10/3/2010
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Originally posted by Onen
She dosent have to raise it. I just don't think a life should be wasted because of what a ****** ass douche did to a woman. It's not like the chld is going to turn out evil and hurtful like the man/idiot who did the crime. I understand that it may be hard for the woman to go through the process of the pregnancy but a child is a beautiful thing...
Discussions like this never end well with me participating lol =/
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Basically you're saying "Hey rape sucks but look! A cute baby!"
That baby will be a constant reminder of the emotionally and psychologically harrowing experience the mother went through, and she'll grow to resent the child.
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Member Since: 10/5/2010
Posts: 11,469
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
Before I answer this, I just want to know if you're against pro-choice morally, or if you also believe that the choice to have an abortion should be illegal.
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I believe that if a woman wants to have an abortion, then it's they're choice. Like I said, I'm not the one carrying the baby. All I find kinda sick is the whole having sex with no protection, getting pregnant, get the abortion and move on like nothing happened. But if the Woman wants to do it, it's they're choice.
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
Posts: 19,686
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Originally posted by Shape
Basically you're saying "Hey rape sucks but look! A cute baby!"
That baby will be a constant reminder of the emotionally and psychologically harrowing experience the mother went through, and she'll grow to resent the child.
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I don't know how to possibly explain to a boy who will never have sex with a girl how emotionally devastating it would be to be raped and then become pregnant.
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Member Since: 11/6/2010
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I've read a discussion like this before and it kinda boiled down to when you believe life starts.
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Member Since: 12/19/2010
Posts: 5,239
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Originally posted by (Cole)
Thank you for illustrating what I've been trying to say through this entire thread. |
You have to use the pictures. It really catches the eye.
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Member Since: 5/28/2011
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Originally posted by Mani
Mhm. I'm sorry, but for me it does. I believe he created the rule of "sex after marriage" to avoid the problems that come with sex. Such as Std's, Sexual abuse, abortions & not being mentally able to handle the responsibility of being a parent. That might not play a part in you're beliefs, but we're two different people obviously..
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Ah. Yes. I see. 
But whatever.
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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IMO every baby that is fertilized deserves to see the world around them. There is always adoption anyways if you don't want a baby.
Also, are you guys happy you have a life? I'm sure you wouldn't want to get killed and couldn't experience this wonderful life God has created for us 
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
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Originally posted by GabeEd
I believe that if a woman wants to have an abortion, then it's they're choice. Like I said, I'm not the one carrying the baby. All I find kinda sick is the whole having sex with no protection, getting pregnant, get the abortion and move on like nothing happened. But if the Woman wants to do it, it's they're choice.
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Sometimes keeping the baby is worse for the Mother and even more so the child.
Another friend of mine got pregnant at 16, she has her baby, kept it and now lives in a trailer where she hides her meth addiction and violent boyfriend from the CPS that are continually called by her old friends who are TERRIFIED for the child.
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Member Since: 7/12/2010
Posts: 9,704
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Originally posted by Bea.
Well if you think that sex should be kept between a man and wife what is your view on sex between two men? Is that wrong?
Because if someone thinks premarital sex is wrong it normally means they frown on other things... Just curious to see your view on that.
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Well for me, I really don't care who you are, I just think it's best to save yourself for the person you choose to marry. I know it's hardly realistic in the age we're living in, but I believe its best because sex brings a lot of problems. I'm not against Gays marrying or anything. Be with who you love.
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Member Since: 8/10/2010
Posts: 9,489
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Originally posted by Shape
Basically you're saying "Hey rape sucks but look! A cute baby!"
That baby will be a constant reminder of the emotionally and psychologically harrowing experience the mother went through, and she'll grow to resent the child.
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That's why I pointed out that she does not have to raise it. I've gotten into debates about this with hardcore pro-choicers and when I brought up the option of adoption, it as a whole seperate arguement. It all boils down to what you believe in. For me, if I were to be raped, I would have the baby and give it up for adoption...but some people believe adoption will give the child a hard life. *shrugs* It depends.
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Member Since: 12/19/2010
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Originally posted by Quiqui4eva
IMO every baby that is fertilized deserves to see the world around them. There is always adoption anyways if you don't want a baby.
Also, are you guys happy you have a life? I'm sure you wouldn't want to get killed and couldn't experience this wonderful life God has created for us |
Well, if it were my mother's decision to get an abortion, I'd be fine with that, because I'd rather her have a better life without having to raise me, if she chose that option. I would have no say. I would have no feelings, no thoughts, nothing. I wouldn't know what would happen next. I would just end up like all of my other brothers and sisters who didn't swim fast enough to the egg.
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Originally posted by Onen
That's why I pointed out that she does not have to raise it. I've gotten into debates about this with hardcore pro-choicers and when I brought up the option of adoption, it as a whole seperate arguement. It all boils down to what you believe in. For me, if I were to be raped, I would have the baby and give it up for adoption...but some people believe adoption will give the child a hard life. *shrugs* It depends.
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And still have to carry and be good for that baby while it's inside you, and then go through labor and all? 
Unfair to the mother, regardless of if she has to raise it or not.
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
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Originally posted by Mani
Well for me, I really don't care who you are, I just think it's best to save yourself for the person you choose to marry. I know it's hardly realistic in the age we're living in, but I believe its best because sex brings a lot of problems. I'm not against Gays marrying or anything. Be with who you love.
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Interesting....so do you pick and choose which of 'Gods Rules' you follow then?
Because according to a whole pile of people God was against homosexual relations, thank goodness enough people have realized that is a stupid rule that it is becoming more and more accepted...but just curious there...
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Member Since: 6/25/2011
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Pro choice.
I don't have a uterus. Not my decision.
It's that simple.
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Member Since: 11/6/2010
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And to the people saying Adoption is bad,...
It beats being six feet under. At least you have a chance.
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Member Since: 5/28/2011
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I can't @ Mani ignoring Bea about homosexuality. 
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Member Since: 12/21/2010
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I wouldn't personally have an abortion if I had lady parts, but I'm firmly pro-choice.
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by Mélina
And to the people saying Adoption is bad,...
It beats being six feet under. At least you have a chance.
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How does a fetus go six feet under once being aborted? 
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Member Since: 5/28/2011
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Originally posted by Mélina
And to the people saying Adoption is bad,...
It beats being six feet under. At least you have a chance.
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I'd rather be dead than be with a bad family that abuses me, since many children who are adopted end up in a bad place like that.
Death > Torture, imo.
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