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Fan Base: Archived: Rihanna (#1)
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I TOLD you guys it was confirmed!
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Member Since: 10/1/2011
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The dust settled and I'm still a stan. I had to sit down for a second, and I realized nothing will make me lose my love for Rih.
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Member Since: 10/15/2010
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OMFG REMIX IS HOOOOOOOOOOOOT 
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
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On February 8th, 2009 I cried for Rihanna. I felt Rihanna's pain and I relived the nightmare that I went through with my boyfriend as a domestic violence victim. Chris Brown assaulting my favorite artist is probably the worse thing that she has ever had to experience, but at the end of the day it allowed me to grow as a fan. I felt connected to her. I felt like I had a personal bond with her because I knew exactly what she was going through. Rihanna taught me that life goes on. Rihanna helped me talk about it when I hated doing it and confronting my biggest fears. She didn't go from shelter to shelter being vocal, as much as many thought she should, but she was a survivor and she stayed strong throughout the whole media frenzy and the public scrutiny. I found that admirable because here I was, normal ol' me struggling to come to terms with my own personal demons, and she was living and moved on against all odds.
Today, I honestly was torn. I've stuck with Rihanna throughout it all and I despised Chris to the fullest for what he did to her, but deep down inside, I'm okay. I'm upset and I can't support the single, even though I do in fact like them both, and I can't support their relationship, but I will continue to support Rihanna. I cried today because deep down inside, I feel like Rihanna needs help just like she helped me through my whole ordeal. I honestly think she's crying out for help. I honestly don't know her thought process exactly, but I know I went through a time where I didn't give a ****. I said **** the world and anyone who ever cared about me simply because I no longer cared about myself. I was on a downward spiral. I'm afraid for Ri and not because she's allowed her aggressor to reenter her life, but also because I think she's going down a very dark path and I'm afraid she may be a threat to her own well-being. At the end of the day, I'm a fan of Rihanna because of her music, but I care for her as a person for the simple fact that her music has been there for me. I wish the best for Ri and I'm still here. I know a lot of others won't be, but I do see a message in her actions... Music can heal and change lives.
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Member Since: 10/15/2010
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Member Since: 1/12/2012
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Member Since: 2/17/2010
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Member Since: 2/16/2010
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Originally posted by KΔΥ.ΒΣΣ
On February 8th, 2009 I cried for Rihanna. I felt Rihanna's pain and I relived the nightmare that I went through with my boyfriend as a domestic violence victim. Chris Brown assaulting my favorite artist is probably the worse thing that she has ever had to experience, but at the end of the day it allowed me to grow as a fan. I felt connected to her. I felt like I had a personal bond with her because I knew exactly what she was going through. Rihanna taught me that life goes on. Rihanna helped me talk about it when I hated doing it and confronting my biggest fears. She didn't go from shelter to shelter being vocal, as much as many thought she should, but she was a survivor and she stayed strong throughout the whole media frenzy and the public scrutiny. I found that admirable because here I was, normal ol' me struggling to come to terms with my own personal demons, and she was living and moved on against all odds.
Today, I honestly was torn. I've stuck with Rihanna throughout it all and I despised Chris to the fullest for what he did to her, but deep down inside, I'm okay. I'm upset and I can't support the single, even though I do in fact like them both, and I can't support their relationship, but I will continue to support Rihanna. I cried today because deep down inside, I feel like Rihanna needs help just like she helped me through my whole ordeal. I honestly think she's crying out for help. I honestly don't know her thought process exactly, but I know I went through a time where I didn't give a ****. I said **** the world and anyone who ever cared about me simply because I no longer cared about myself. I was on a downward spiral. I'm afraid for Ri and not because she's allowed her aggressor to reenter her life, but also because I think she's going down a very dark path and I'm afraid she may be a threat to her own well-being. At the end of the day, I'm a fan of Rihanna because of her music, but I care for her as a person for the simple fact that her music has been there for me. I wish the best for Ri and I'm still here. I know a lot of others won't be, but I do see a message in her actions... Music can heal and change lives.
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This is why it bothers me so much. The incident affected so many people, & she's basically refuting the message she was sending all along.
If she needs help, then someone needs to get her there. I'll support her every step of the way if she is truly not okay. But as of now, I think this a cold, calculated move for publicity.
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by KΔΥ.ΒΣΣ
On February 8th, 2009 I cried for Rihanna. I felt Rihanna's pain and I relived the nightmare that I went through with my boyfriend as a domestic violence victim. Chris Brown assaulting my favorite artist is probably the worse thing that she has ever had to experience, but at the end of the day it allowed me to grow as a fan. I felt connected to her. I felt like I had a personal bond with her because I knew exactly what she was going through. Rihanna taught me that life goes on. Rihanna helped me talk about it when I hated doing it and confronting my biggest fears. She didn't go from shelter to shelter being vocal, as much as many thought she should, but she was a survivor and she stayed strong throughout the whole media frenzy and the public scrutiny. I found that admirable because here I was, normal ol' me struggling to come to terms with my own personal demons, and she was living and moved on against all odds.
Today, I honestly was torn. I've stuck with Rihanna throughout it all and I despised Chris to the fullest for what he did to her, but deep down inside, I'm okay. I'm upset and I can't support the single, even though I do in fact like them both, and I can't support their relationship, but I will continue to support Rihanna. I cried today because deep down inside, I feel like Rihanna needs help just like she helped me through my whole ordeal. I honestly think she's crying out for help. I honestly don't know her thought process exactly, but I know I went through a time where I didn't give a ****. I said **** the world and anyone who ever cared about me simply because I no longer cared about myself. I was on a downward spiral. I'm afraid for Ri and not because she's allowed her aggressor to reenter her life, but also because I think she's going down a very dark path and I'm afraid she may be a threat to her own well-being. At the end of the day, I'm a fan of Rihanna because of her music, but I care for her as a person for the simple fact that her music has been there for me. I wish the best for Ri and I'm still here. I know a lot of others won't be, but I do see a message in her actions... Music can heal and change lives.
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My feelings are very conflicted, but I think after calming down that I want to see the best for her. I'm no longer a stan, at least not for awhile, but that doesn't mean I don't want to see her improve and reach a good place in her life. Because right now, she's not in it.
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Member Since: 3/5/2011
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Originally posted by RhnNec
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Just shut up today, will ya >>>
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Member Since: 10/22/2010
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Originally posted by BadBitch
I can't even take the "Rated R" album seriously anymore.
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Rated R is meaningless to me now.
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Member Since: 3/5/2011
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
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My feelings are very conflicted, but I think after calming down that I want to see the best for her. I'm no longer a stan, at least not for awhile, but that doesn't mean I don't want to see her improve and reach a good place in her life. Because right now, she's not in it.
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IKR? I'm literally torn. 
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Member Since: 3/5/2011
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Originally posted by Babe.
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Rated R is meaningless to me now.
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Don't give me that crap. Rih was devasted that year and RatedR helped her a lot and it had, still has a meaning, a reminder of what happened to her.
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Member Since: 6/1/2011
Posts: 4,435
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i bet after 1-2 weeks most of them will come back, like a boyfriends fight 
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Member Since: 2/17/2010
Posts: 21,811
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Originally posted by Babe.
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Rated R is meaningless to me now.
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Rihanna is a weak person. I thought she was strong 
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Member Since: 10/15/2010
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Originally posted by Cas
Just shut up today, will ya >>>
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I will not. I cant believe all of you guys. You must support her... If you don't support then ...
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
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Originally posted by MusicTalker
This is why it bothers me so much. The incident affected so many people, & she's basically refuting the message she was sending all along.
If she needs help, then someone needs to get her there. I'll support her every step of the way if she is truly not okay. But as of now, I think this a cold, calculated move for publicity.
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I mean when you're in love, you're young, thriving, and happy and your life all of a sudden makes a complete 180 what do you really do? The love doesn't go away. You hit an all-time low and you try to convince yourself that you're ok and that life will go on. It eventually does, but you are constantly fighting against your feelings and emotions you still have deep down inside over a person that you never got to even properly say goodbye to. My ex was my absolute best friend and he had been going through a lot with his mom being terminally ill and one night his emotions got the best of him and he took it out on me. I am thoroughly convinced that he would never hit me again. I still love my ex. I'm engaged now and I'm head over heels in love with my fiance, but at the end of the day "What if?" always ponders in the back of my mind. At one point, I was single, I was drinking to hide the pain and loneliness I truly felt inside. I surrounded myself with friends and family all the time, but honestly, I only wanted one person. It's hard. I've been there. I don't fault Rihanna for going back. A lot of women do. It's never just physical abuse. It ****s with you psychologically. I am disappointed because I did expect her to get out and be an inspiration, but sometimes everything isn't a perfect fairytale. Everything doesn't always have a happy ending. I do think she needs help for the simple fact that she never actually got to properly heal.
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Member Since: 12/19/2011
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Ok we get it, you post it in every thread 
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Member Since: 12/19/2011
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Originally posted by Яeo.
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Really @ your avi?!?!
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