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Originally posted by Javan
Ok. Maybe you're right. But the problem is. You're looking at this from a gay extremely liberal pc "equal for all" perspective. I am looking at this from a realistic, straight males perspective, who wants a wife and kids. And that woman is going to expect me to be the "man of the house" and expect me to take care of her, that's how it's always been and I don't think it's ever going to change. Which is why a father is important in most instances and my situation in particular because I think I deserve to the opportunity to have witnessed that kind of relationship dynamic and learn form it. You say gender roles like it's a bad thing, I don't think it's a bad thing. There's no harm in saying that we are not the same. Male, female we are made differently biologically, and that is what has shaped society/gender norms. And I believe that's simply how God intended it.
As I said, I'm seeing this from a straight males perspective. I believe in gender equality to an extent but that doesn't mean I'm going to allow a woman to command a relationship/the house. Idc if that sounds sexist. That's not happening, it's not realistic. People should stick to their roles.
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Oh. My. God.
I'll just end with a few thoughts. Good luck to you if you think women out there are all looking for someone to be the "man of the house" and want to "stick to their roles" (let me just point out that if men and women should stick to their roles, who is to say rich and poor shouldn't stick to their roles? or do you not believe in people bettering their social standing?).
"Idc if that sounds sexist. That's not happening, it's not realistic" But the problem is: it IS happening and it IS realistic. It's changing with every generation, and you're in for a VERY rude awakening if you think it will always be like this.
"I believe in gender equality to an extent but that doesn't mean I'm going to allow a woman to command a relationship/the house" is probably the biggest contradiction I've read this week. How funny too, coming from someone with a Beyoncé avi. She would NOT claim you. You are ***Ignorant.
But the final kicker: "You're looking at this from a gay extremely liberal pc "equal for all" perspective. I am looking at this from a realistic, straight males perspective" AH, thanks for telling me that a straight male perspective is REALISTIC. I'm glad to know my perspective is as real as unicorns and fairies (cause, you know, gays like their unicorns and fairies
). I'm not some extremely liberal nutjob, and my opinion is not lesser than yours. You, however, have revealed yourself to be bigoted and ignorant. Sweet. Can't wait to meet the ignorant children you will one day produce with your subservient wife
I was willing to consider your arguments until this very revealing, sexist, backwards post of yours, but not anymore, since apparently my arguments are tainted by my gay stank.
Let me stop now, I'm just wasting my time. Have a lovely day
