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Originally posted by Javan
fffs can you stop quoting me, this is going no where  .
Right. What about how much people where studied? And where/how does it say that they adjusted the factors in the document/pdf you sent me? I CTRL+F "when all things are equal" and no results showed 
Ok. Maybe you're right. But the problem is. You're looking at this from a gay extremely liberal pc "equal for all" perspective. I am looking at this from a realistic, straight males perspective, who wants a wife and kids. And that woman is going to expect me to be the "man of the house" and expect me to take care of her, that's how it's always been and I don't think it's ever going to change. You say gender roles like it's a bad thing, I don't think it's a bad thing. There's no harm in saying that we are not the same. Male, female we are made differently biologically, and that is what has shaped society/gender norms. And I believe that's simply how God intended.
As I said, I'm seeing this from a straight males perspective. I believe in gender equality to an extent but that doesn't mean I'm going to allow a woman to command a relationship/the house. Idc if that sounds sexist. That's not happening, it's not realistic. People should stick to their roles.
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So you're a homophobe and a sexist. You keep digging your hole deeper and deeper.
and as for the "people sticking to their roles" point, all I can say is WOW.
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Originally posted by BadKidBrodie
Well done for showing your true colours and making a complete fool of yourself on ATRL in front of everyone  |
He has a point though:
"A recent study by Big smoke has shown that 98% percent of ATRLers love orange soda"
See? I just did what 34909435 other "studies" have done. What makes them different is the how.
Did I go to every ATRLer on here and ask? Or did I just yank that out my ass?
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omg what is even going on in this thread
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Welp looks like Harry is #1 now
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he always was 
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Originally posted by tEA$E
Not going to lie though, I'd rather have a mum and a dad than a dad and a dad. I love my mum, I don't want to have two dads. That's why I'm going to marry a girl, and keep it all cool.
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didn't you introduce yourself as a chick in the K$ thread???
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Because the world says it isn't. God loves all his children equally. His love isn't held captive by the ignorant restrictive holds of the human mind and heart.
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he probably whispers ''no homo'' every time he does it, which automatically negates the gay
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He probably just broke up with Louis
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why do ya'll keep getting the pairings mixed
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Originally posted by Ramcoro
I thought it has been established that women more often wear the pants in the relationship nowadays.  |
More and more are becoming the bread winners as well.
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Originally posted by Big Smoke
He has a point though:
"A recent study by Big smoke has shown that 98% percent of ATRLers love orange soda"
See? I just did what 34909435 other "studies" have done. What makes them different is the how.
Did I go to every ATRLer on here and ask? Or did I just yank that out my ass?
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You aren't the leading psychological research facility in the U.S are you? And there are pdf files in the experiment report showing the means of research etc.
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Originally posted by Javan
fffs can you stop quoting me, this is going no where .
Right. What about how much people where studied? And where/how does it say that they adjusted the factors in the document/pdf you sent me? I CTRL+F "when all things are equal" and no results showed |
Sorry the exact wording was "other things equal"
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Originally posted by Javan
Ok. Maybe you're right. But the problem is. You're looking at this from a gay extremely liberal pc "equal for all" perspective. I am looking at this from a realistic, straight males perspective, who wants a wife and kids. And that woman is going to expect me to be the "man of the house" and expect me to take care of her, that's how it's always been and I don't think it's ever going to change. Which is why a father is important in most instances and my situation in particular because I think I deserve to the opportunity to have witnessed that kind of relationship dynamic and learn form it. You say gender roles like it's a bad thing, I don't think it's a bad thing. There's no harm in saying that we are not the same. Male, female we are made differently biologically, and that is what has shaped society/gender norms. And I believe that's simply how God intended it.
As I said, I'm seeing this from a straight males perspective. I believe in gender equality to an extent but that doesn't mean I'm going to allow a woman to command a relationship/the house. Idc if that sounds sexist. That's not happening, it's not realistic. People should stick to their roles.
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Are you single?  Because you might have a hard time finding a wife that agrees completely with you. You're idea that "God created gender roles" is ridiculous. If that were true, why are gender roles so vastly different amongst different cultures?
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Originally posted by BadKidBrodie
You aren't the leading psychological research facility in the U.S are you? And there are pdf files in the experiment report showing the means of research etc.
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Yet you didn't post them to me... You're simply a sheep trying to hard to be an edgy liberal. You don't care if what you are saying posting makes sense or not as long as it confronts the norm. Like all you've done is post redundant links without actually comprehending it's content an called me names as a rebuttal. You think that makes you clever, bro?
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Originally posted by Javan
Yet you didn't post them to me... You're simply a sheep trying to hard to be an edgy liberal. You don't care if what you are saying posting makes sense or not as long as it confronts the norm. Like all you've done is post redundant links without actually comprehending it's content an called me names as a rebuttal. You think that makes you clever, bro?
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I haven't posted any links in here though? 
I'm laughing so hard right now at your "gender roles" rant and the macho little "bro" at the end of your post  How are you ever going to find a woman to marry if you're a misogynist ****?
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Originally posted by Javan
Yet you didn't post them to me... You're simply a sheep trying to hard to be an edgy liberal. You don't care if what you are saying posting makes sense or not as long as it confronts the norm. Like all you've done is post redundant links without actually comprehending it's content an called me names as a rebuttal. You think that makes you clever, bro?
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How is he a sheep, when he was the one that went and did research to form an opinion, rather than sticking to conservative rhetoric? 
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How is he a sheep, when he was the one that went and did research to form an opinion, rather than sticking to conservative rhetoric? |
I'm still laughing at "bro" 
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Someone in here is doing really well sticking to their role as a closeted self-hating little boy.
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Originally posted by BadKidBrodie
You aren't the leading psychological research facility in the U.S are you? And there are pdf files in the experiment report showing the means of research etc.
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And how did they become the leading psychological research facility in the US?
Jesus
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Originally posted by Big Smoke
And how did they become the leading psychological research facility in the US?
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Ask the person that posted the link. They obviously know more than I do.
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Originally posted by Ramcoro
Sorry the exact wording was "other things equal"
Are you single? Because you might have a hard time finding a wife that agrees completely with you. You're idea that "God created gender roles" is ridiculous. If that were true, why are gender roles so vastly different amongst different cultures? |
You may find this hard to believe but most women aren't burning their bras and looking for domination over men...
I don't want to bring my religion into this, because it will just get messy and that can be avoided but I am yet to hear of a matriarchal society. They don't exist no? How vastly different are they really?
I use to be like you, and got into an argument with my mum about gender equality, and then I realize that I don't really want a chick bossing me around. She'll just give me headache. I wasn't being realistic. I live in a culture where women tend to marry above them, and look for a man who can take care of her. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that, nor do I think there's anything wrong with an independent woman. But I'm African who wants a patner who understands my culture, so something you would call submissive wife isn't going to be something hard to find. It isn't even hard to find in the West.... That doesn't make me barbaric. There can only be one head to a relationship, and I'd be damned if that ever becomes a women in my situation.
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And that Jim Crow comment is not racist, like READ and understand lol.
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Liam his impact. 
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My impact remains unbothered
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Originally posted by Javan
You may find this hard to believe but most women aren't burning their bras and looking for domination over men...
I don't want to bring my religion into this, because it will just get messy and that can be avoided but I am yet to hear of a matriarchal region. They don't exist no? How vastly different are they really?
I use to be like you, and got into an argument with my mum about gender equality, and then I realize that I don't really want a chick bossing me around. She'll just give me headache. I wasn't being realistic. I live in a culture where women tend to marry above them, and look for a man who can take care of her. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that, nor do I think there's anything wrong with an independent woman. But I'm African who wants a patner who understands my culture, so something you would call submissive wife isn't going to be something hard to find. It isn't even hard to find in the West.... That doesn't make me barbaric. There can only be one head to a relationship, and I'd be damned if that ever becomes a women in my situation.
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That is absolutely pathetic.
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Originally posted by Javan
You may find this hard to believe but most women aren't burning their bras and looking for domination over men...
I don't want to bring my religion into this, because it will just get messy and that can be avoided but I am yet to hear of a matriarchal region. They don't exist no? How vastly different are they really?
I use to be like you, and got into an argument with my mum about gender equality, and then I realize that I don't really want a chick bossing me around. She'll just give me headache. I wasn't being realistic. I live in a culture where women tend to marry above them, and look for a man who can take care of her. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that, nor do I think there's anything wrong with an independent woman. But I'm African who wants a patner who understands my culture, so something you would call submissive wife isn't going to be something hard to find. It isn't even hard to find in the West.... That doesn't make me barbaric. There can only be one head to a relationship, and I'd be damned if that ever becomes a women in my situation.
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As an extremely dominating female myself, I just find it interesting to hear this mindset. I'm curious, why do you feel this way? Do you feel threatened? Like your masculinity is on the line?
It's your life; you're free to choose how to live it. You definitely would never be with a person like me, and vice versa.
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