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Discussion: Self Hate within the Gay Community :biblio:
Member Since: 12/9/2009
Posts: 13,069
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Originally posted by Dream
Traditional my ass. You'd still be in the closet getting ready for a sexless marriage if it wasn't for those "lady boys" you disparage.
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UGH exactly. Absolutely no respect for his community. At the end of the day, he and these other Masc 4 masc guys are still gay and not matter how much they try to make themselves better than others, you'll still be treated as a gay!
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 3,164
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y'all can stay coming for "fems" all days but in reality it was drag queens getting their asses beat in the streets so you could live to be able to share your dumbass opinions on the internet so that's what i'm leaving y'all with
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Member Since: 10/14/2010
Posts: 6,781
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Originally posted by Witch_Privilege
Every time I see that masc4masc crap, I always say:
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That was amazing, let me use that.
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Member Since: 8/30/2011
Posts: 3,378
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Why the superiority complex crap. Id date a feminine guy any day, cause of their high levels of self-acceptance and for the fact they are comfortable in their own skin and sexuality. I know am stable there. I'd rather that, than a self-loathing gay guy or a shallow individual whom would leave you or surprise you with their straight obsession, like a secret g.f etc
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Member Since: 2/17/2012
Posts: 33,611
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Originally posted by Sakamoto
you took the words out of my mouth, you literally just described yourself
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Nope! Sorry not true. I wasn't offended by what you said on a personal level, I was just saying that there IS a toxic element in the gay community when it comes to preferring masculine guys. Not that you were part of it, you just assumed I meant that, and then you had to assume it's because I've obviously been rejected many times because of this? lol!! There definitely ARE people who refer to fem gay men as women (they're in this thread for god sakes) and it was mentioned in the OP!
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Member Since: 4/7/2012
Posts: 10,174
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No matter what happens, you are still gay. GAY GAY GAY. You will never fit the traditional mold of masculinity so many of you desperately crave nor will you ever find a man that fits it either. A gay man will never be seen as traditionally masculine in society. Haha! Toodles!
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 11/4/2010
Posts: 26,597
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Originally posted by Dream
No matter what happens, you are still gay. GAY GAY GAY. You will never fit the traditional mold of masculinity so many of you desperately crave nor will you ever find a man that fits it either. A gay man will never be seen as traditionally masculine in society. Haha! Toodles!
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right? they're still taking **** up their *** so
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Member Since: 12/16/2008
Posts: 59,380
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All that I can say is that there are many hypocrites in this thread...
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Member Since: 2/17/2012
Posts: 33,611
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Originally posted by Dream
No matter what happens, you are still gay. GAY GAY GAY. You will never fit the traditional mold of masculinity so many of you desperately crave nor will you ever find a man that fits it either. A gay man will never be seen as traditionally masculine in society. Haha! Toodles!
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But nope, perpetuating really negative starts about femininity, gays, and gender roles as a whole is JUST A PREFERENCE!
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Member Since: 4/7/2012
Posts: 10,174
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Originally posted by Joaquin
right? they're still taking **** up their *** so
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hmmm exactly. what kind of masculine man eats da poo poo?
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
Posts: 7,228
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Originally posted by xtina10
How can someone act straight?
I'm sorry, not everyone can wear crop tops and strut instead of walk while moving their hands in the air every other second.
Straight is a sexual orientation. Saying you like girls when you really don't is pretending to act straight. Dressing, your body build, and how you act around others does not automatically decide someone's sexual orientation.
So please, you're that upset about being a fem, at the very least go on youtube or those instagram trainers so you could get some FREE tips on how to become more mass and build because something is obviously is upsetting you so you can prove that person who didn't want you in the first place
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So you want to date someone who pretends to like girls, but comes home to you at 2am because they couldn't take you out? Going to the gym doesn't make you straight, Playing sports doesn't make you straight. If by your definition that is what straight acting is then why not just ask for a DL dude .
Where do you keep getting this idea that i'm feminine? Just because I feel strongly about then ignorance of this subject doesn't make me feminine.
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 12,760
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Even though I'm still young I've almost settled with the fact that I'm going to remain single because of these ideals. Being in this community can suck sometimes. At least I can say I love being myself most of the time!
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 3,164
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Originally posted by madonnas
But nope, perpetuating really negative starts about femininity, gays, and gender roles as a whole is JUST A PREFERENCE!
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collect them
of course a Kylie fan has flawless opinions
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Member Since: 11/1/2011
Posts: 377
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Originally posted by Dream
No matter what happens, you are still gay. GAY GAY GAY. You will never fit the traditional mold of masculinity so many of you desperately crave nor will you ever find a man that fits it either. A gay man will never be seen as traditionally masculine in society. Haha! Toodles!
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Whoever you are referring poor dat. But that's definitely not me you are so hell bent on being PC and sensitive in my previous post masculine and traditional are in quotations. When I use the world traditional yes I mean a "masculine" guy that likes sports or video games , someone bigger than me physically not as sensitive ( being a petty queen). Whats wrong with liking someone that doesn't have a lisp and screams yasssssssssssss when a pop girl is on tv ? and there isn't anything wrong with screaming yasss because I'm that gay.
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Banned
Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 1,352
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Originally posted by Notorious MINAJ
So you want to date someone who pretends to like girls, but comes home to you at 2am because they couldn't take you out? Going to the gym doesn't make you straight, Playing sports doesn't make you straight. If by your definition that is what straight acting is then why not just ask for a DL dude .
Where do you keep getting this idea that i'm feminine? Just because I feel strongly about then ignorance of this subject doesn't make me feminine.
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Actual everything you posted is based on what you think like.
You said you hate people who dates mascs only and because of how mascs look like, they are considered straight looking.
You are proving to be a TRUE NICKI MINAJ FAN.
Turning the tables on me. NOT ON MY WATCH
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
Posts: 16,101
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I do understand what people are saying about it being a preference, though. They aren't saying that they think being fem is wrong/bad, but they just aren't romantically attracted to that. That's cool.
It's like me saying that I'm not into "large" people. I'm not saying they are bad/wrong for being "large", but I'm just not attracted to that.
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Member Since: 4/7/2012
Posts: 10,174
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Originally posted by RihSexual
Whoever you are referring poor dat. But that's definitely not me you are so hell bent on being PC and sensitive in my previous post masculine and traditional are in quotations. When I use the world traditional yes I mean a "masculine" guy that likes sports or video games , someone bigger than me physically not as sensitive ( being a petty queen). Whats wrong with liking someone that doesn't have a lisp and screams yasssssssssssss when a pop girl is on tv ? and there isn't anything wrong with screaming yasss because I'm that gay.
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I honestly have never actually met a guy that has a lisp and screams yassss when a pop girl is on tv. You'd write off a guy just because they don't like sports? And being petty has nothing to do with femininity...
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
Posts: 6,930
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Originally posted by xtina10
How can someone act straight?
I'm sorry, not everyone can wear crop tops and strut instead of walk while moving their hands in the air every other second.
Straight is a sexual orientation. Saying you like girls when you really don't is pretending to act straight. Dressing, your body build, and how you act around others does not automatically decide someone's sexual orientation.
So please, you're that upset about being a fem, at the very least go on youtube or those instagram trainers so you could get some FREE tips on how to become more mass and build because something is obviously is upsetting you so you can prove that person who didn't want you in the first place
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Excuse me, but aren't you that one tragic bitch who invented Lucia Cole?
No one needs to hear you talk about masculinity Lucia, thank you.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 3,035
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Originally posted by madonnas
Nope! Sorry not true. I wasn't offended by what you said on a personal level, I was just saying that there IS a toxic element in the gay community when it comes to preferring masculine guys. Not that you were part of it, you just assumed I meant that, and then you had to assume it's because I've obviously been rejected many times because of this? lol!! There definitely ARE people who refer to fem gay men as women (they're in this thread for god sakes) and it was mentioned in the OP!
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all you SJWs need to take a seat.
I'm a fem guy and don't get offended if someone says he's not into me because of that.
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Member Since: 11/1/2011
Posts: 377
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Originally posted by Dream
I honestly have never actually met a guy that has a lisp and screams yassss when a pop girl is on tv. You'd write off a guy just because they don't like sports? And being petty has nothing to do with femininity...
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No you asshole I was listing qualities that are attributed to "masculine men " or the traditional heteronormative stop putting words into my mouth.
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