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Discussion: Have your parents ever asked you if you have a "girlfriend"
Member Since: 2/20/2012
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Originally posted by careerfatality
i got a fake girlfriend. whenever someone brings that question up, i talk about her
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The desperation...
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
Posts: 29,717
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
None of the guys in my class really ask me about girls
It's only because my friends know that I'm gay and they told their boyfriends so a few of them know. Then these girls in my class exposed me by simply asking me in front of everyone and I was all "uh yeah I'm gay lol" and this was like a month ago and my sexuality is still lowkey a secret
So grateful no one told
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I can't imagine being out in high school tbh. You brave soul.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by zach
I can't imagine being out in high school tbh. You brave soul.
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I'm not like actually out. But I'm not in you know?
Like only my class knows and my friends.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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I actually have a kid in my school who's openly out but I still can't get the guts to even say it. Like when I come out to my friends I usually say "Omg so I have a crush on this guy..."
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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My mom always talks about me getting a girlfriend DESPITE the fact that I've said I'm gay numerous times, and my dad has said how I'm gay to her face multiple times. She legit refuses to believe it.
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
Posts: 29,717
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
Omg though, my mom is legit stupid if she didn't believe I was gay before I came out. Like my phone background was a picture of a shirtless guy and my mom LOVES going through my phone before I wake up every morning, so when she saw the pic she awoke me and was all "WHO IS THIS" and I was all "an actor" and she pondered for a second and was all "ah"
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I had this picture as my desktop for a while and my mom saw it and asked who it was, and I could tell by the tone of her voice she was surprised to see a picture of a woman like that as my desktop. For some reason she couldn't tell it was Britney, so I told her and you could see the defeat in her eyes.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 13,381
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Originally posted by TheCheetahwings
My mom always talks about me getting a girlfriend DESPITE the fact that I've said I'm gay numerous times, and my dad has said how I'm gay to her face multiple times. She legit refuses to believe it.
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A mess
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
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My father always talks about my brother and I having wives someday and I think he genuinely believes that I'm straight and he's homophobic and heteronormative and coming out is either gonna be really fun or really painful.
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
Posts: 29,717
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
I'm not like actually out. But I'm not in you know?
Like only my class knows and my friends.
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Still. I mean, I don't know your situation, but rumours of me being gay were around forever and then when I finally realized it was I was like "oh ****". And then I didn't wanna give them the satisfaction of being right.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by zach
I had this picture as my desktop for a while and my mom saw it and asked who it was, and I could tell by the tone of her voice she was surprised to see a picture of a woman like that as my desktop. For some reason she couldn't tell it was Britney, so I told her and you could see the defeat in her eyes.
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The defeat in her eyes
I usually have my computer background as females such as Ariana Grande and Lucy Hale and my mom is all "she's very pretty!" and I'm all "yeah" cuz idk what to say
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by zach
Still. I mean, I don't know your situation, but rumours of me being gay were around forever and then when I finally realized it was I was like "oh ****". And then I didn't wanna give them the satisfaction of being right.
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The rumors are the worst. There were rumors last year about me being gay and I got scared, but now I think people were just trying to get me to just admit I was gay.
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
Posts: 50,981
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
I actually have a kid in my school who's openly out but I still can't get the guts to even say it. Like when I come out to my friends I usually say "Omg so I have a crush on this guy..."
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I'm pretty sure I was friends with the only openly gay guy in my high school. There were rumors about a few other guys, and a lot of speculation about me (I was confused/questioning at the time, but still said I was straight), but I think he was the only out guy. He was the first openly gay person I ever knew.
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
Posts: 29,717
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
The rumors are the worst. There were rumors last year about me being gay and I got scared, but now I think people were just trying to get me to just admit I was gay.
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And I'm pretty sure it was my best friend who started the rumours too.
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
The rumors are the worst. There were rumors last year about me being gay and I got scared, but now I think people were just trying to get me to just admit I was gay.
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I went through all 4 years of high school with people questioning my sexuality. My friends had arguments about it. Guys who didn't like me called me gay (the f word was rarely used, fortunately). The worst part was that I didn't identify as gay at the time. So everyone thought that I was gay, probably trying to get me to admit it, but every crush that I had in high school was on a girl. It was the worst.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by JakeKills
I'm pretty sure I was friends with the only openly gay guy in my high school. There were rumors about a few other guys, and a lot of speculation about me (I was confused/questioning at the time, but still said I was straight), but I think he was the only out guy. He was the first openly gay person I ever knew.
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I don't have any openly gay friends, or many gay friends in general. I'm usually closer to girls.
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
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Originally posted by JakeKills
I went through all 4 years of high school with people questioning my sexuality. My friends had arguments about it. Guys who didn't like me called me gay (the f word was rarely used, fortunately). The worst part was that I didn't identify as gay at the time. So everyone thought that I was gay, probably trying to get me to admit it, but every crush that I had in high school was on a girl. It was the worst.
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This was me, but in middle school (and I only got the f word). I completely shut down in high school.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by zach
And I'm pretty sure it was my best friend who started the rumours too.
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The betrayal
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Originally posted by JakeKills
I went through all 4 years of high school with people questioning my sexuality. My friends had arguments about it. Guys who didn't like me called me gay (the f word was rarely used, fortunately). The worst part was that I didn't identify as gay at the time. So everyone thought that I was gay, probably trying to get me to admit it, but every crush that I had in high school was on a girl. It was the worst.
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Aww that's terrible, I'm sorry
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
Posts: 29,717
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
I don't have any openly gay friends, or many gay friends in general. I'm usually closer to girls.
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Same. Yet online, I only have 2 female friends and the rest are gay.
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Member Since: 10/1/2011
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When your mom asks if your date to prom is a guy or a girl
I already came out to her but she's like halfway in denial
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 13,381
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Originally posted by zach
Same. Yet online, I only have 2 female friends and the rest are gay.
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Online, I have one female friend, one straight friend, and the rest are gay
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