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Discussion: Do you have a straight male bff?
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Also, I don't know why some gays would limit their male friends to only gays....
I mean if you're lucky (like I have been) you'll jerk off one of your straight friends or at least see their penis. That's more exciting than anything you'll ever do with a gay.
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I used to have one. I've told this story like 10x on here but anyway... I came out to him about a year ago and everything went fine and such. He didn't care, we hung out alone more, became closer, etc. Things were good until I found out he told one of our other friends. His reasoning...? "He's my best friend! I had to tell him." He took several screen shots of our convo where I came out to him with all this other personal **** and showed it to him. Anyway, a couple months later I find out one by one that he's been telling more and more people as if it's his business/he's the one coming out. Long story short, he's a piece of trash and I haven't talked to him or the other since the summer. I should have stopped talking/hanging out with these people years ago
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Member Since: 4/6/2014
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Originally posted by Scandal & Media
I used to have one. I've told this story like 10x on here but anyway... I came out to him about a year ago and everything went fine and such. He didn't care, we hung out alone more, became closer, etc. Things were good until I found out he told one of our other friends. His reasoning...? "He's my best friend! I had to tell him." He took several screen shots of our convo where I came out to him with all this other personal **** and showed it to him. Anyway, a couple months later I find out one by one that he's been telling more and more people as if it's his business/he's the one coming out. Long story short, he's a piece of trash and I haven't talked to him or the other since the summer. I should have stopped talking/hanging out with these people years ago
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Aww babe!
Let this be a lesson! NEVER PUT PERSONAL details in a text! Always face to face and you make sure they aint holding they phones so they can't record the audio!
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Member Since: 10/19/2010
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Originally posted by Blade
Also, I don't know why some gays would limit their male friends to only gays....
I mean if you're lucky (like I have been) you'll jerk off one of your straight friends or at least see their penis. That's more exciting than anything you'll ever do with a gay.
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Sig-worthy but I'm afraid Retro will scalp me if I use it.
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Originally posted by PrettyHurts
I hope one day i'm able to tell my crush how I feel too. I think I will find a way soon. I know the feelings might not be mutual but at least I can get it off my chest and finally feel "free" I guess? Did you feel better after telling him?
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Tbh I never got to evaluate if I felt better or not, but from the way our friendship continued after then it didn't matter much. In the long run we remained friends. Best friends in fact.
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Member Since: 9/3/2011
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Being friends with exclusively girls for so long makes it so hard, I've branched out a little this year but if the guy's hot all I can think about is sleeping with him while we're having a conversation I have a few guy friends but not even close to bffs.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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i used to at school but we sort of drifted after i came out. i think it was more to do with me being more able to finally figure out who i was than me being gay.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Can't_M!ss_This
Aww babe!
Let this be a lesson! NEVER PUT PERSONAL details in a text! Always face to face and you make sure they aint holding they phones so they can't record the audio!
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and remember folks, the government is always watching you!
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Member Since: 11/26/2010
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Well we're not bffs, but I finally got a straight guy friend this semester! The gays at my college are pretty much non existent.
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Member Since: 7/15/2012
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I did until I was 11 and changed schools
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Member Since: 6/25/2012
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Member Since: 4/6/2014
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Originally posted by conatus
and remember folks, the government is always watching you!
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Boy do they get an eyeful
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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My straight male friends don't seem to care about my bisexuality at all.
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Member Since: 4/4/2014
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Yes! We met in college last year.
He keeps asking me to go to gay clubs so he can get me a bf
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Member Since: 11/28/2011
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On the contrary, I'm starting to suspect my friend is gay. He stans for 5Harmony
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I had three and I'm only left with one. We all met in elementary school and were inseparable till we graduated high school and I went off to college. When I got together with my first boyfriend I thought it was time to come out to them. One night I was supposed to hang out with them but my car broke down. My ex offered to pick me up and hang out. Long story short, we got drunk and I was texting with my friends, they were upset that I was somewhere drunk when I was supposed to be with them for our weekly hookah. My ex saw how flustered I was and took my phone away. One by one, he started calling my friends and telling them that he was my boyfriend. After that, 2 of my best friends that I had considered like brothers stopped talking to me completely. No more gym, video game, drink invites. One of them I hooked up with one of my best girlfriends, she later told me that he was worried that I would hit on him or try something "gay" on him. Realizing that a person who's known me for 2 thirds of my life would easily turn their back on me in the blink of an eye was what hurt the most. The one that I still hold a strong friendship with, pulled me aside and told me that he respected who I was and he didn't care if I was gay. To the day, I've been fortunate to see him start his own family, go to his kids birthday parties and talk about anything to him. It's so funny how he and my own brother, after finding out I was gay, they grew so much more protective of me, it cracks me up because they do more gentlemen kind of stuff for me, like open doors, pull my chair out to sit. I was like dude! I'm gay, not lady.
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Member Since: 10/19/2010
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Originally posted by Amour&Psyche
I had three and I'm only left with one. We all met in elementary school and were inseparable till we graduated high school and I went off to college. When I got together with my first boyfriend I thought it was time to come out to them. One night I was supposed to hang out with them but my car broke down. My ex offered to pick me up and hang out. Long story short, we got drunk and I was texting with my friends, they were upset that I was somewhere drunk when I was supposed to be with them for our weekly hookah. My ex saw how flustered I was and took my phone away. One by one, he started calling my friends and telling them that he was my boyfriend. After that, 2 of my best friends that I had considered like brothers stopped talking to me completely. No more gym, video game, drink invites. One of them I hooked up with one of my best girlfriends, she later told me that he was worried that I would hit on him or try something "gay" on him. Realizing that a person who's known me for 2 thirds of my life would easily turn their back on me in the blink of an eye was what hurt the most. The one that I still hold a strong friendship with, pulled me aside and told me that he respected who I was and he didn't care if I was gay. To the day, I've been fortunate to see him start his own family, go to his kids birthday parties and talk about anything to him. It's so funny how he and my own brother, after finding out I was gay, they grew so much more protective of me, it cracks me up because they do more gentlemen kind of stuff for me, like open doors, pull my chair out to sit. I was like dude! I'm gay, not lady.
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It's amazing how coming out actually helps you figure out who your real friends are.
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Member Since: 1/2/2014
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Yes. 15+.
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Member Since: 1/1/2013
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Yeah, 4 of them.
They've never had an issue with it.
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