I do not have a good relationship with either of them. My mom tho because she kind of has the parenting gene. If I ended up in the hospital my dad would not give a ****, but my mom would visit me every day...oh wait, this is not even hypothetical. Mess.
I'm closer with my Mum because she raised me and my older sister, as if she were a single Mum. My Dad has been working overseas from since he was about 25 yrs old.
I don't have a good relationships with my Dad, and my Mum and I argue a lot. She's from the Far-East and I'm a Westerner, so we (me & my sis) clash a lot with our uptight, conservative Mum, and our old-fashioned, never-around Dad.
I can see our relationship improving as I get older and when I've moved out, and it isn't so intense.
My grandparents, raised me until I was 11... Then my mom decided to take me away from her by secretly taking me to the US and live with her. I was forced not to tell my grandma I moved. When she found out my mom took me without her knowing.. She had a heart attack. I still to this day will never forgive my mom for that. Once I started living with her I encountered my first abusive encounter. The amount of abuse I have taken from her is unreal. Ofcourse I had my grandma by my side. To top this off when I was 16 I had an emotional breakdown, an anxiety attack and entered chronic stress and teen depression. ALL OF THIS IN ONE YEAR. Having being betrayed by friends and having them talking **** about me in school, then comming home to fighting with my mother every day... It's by far my worst experience... Ofcourse I called my grandparents they were always there for me. My dad died. Took a toll on me. Still. Taking. My relationship with my mom is now OK. I don't love her, but I respect her. Because of the amount of **** that happend in 2011-2012 I have emotional and mental damage. I just can't wait till June 2014 to be back and live with my grandparents