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Discussion: Let's talk bullying.
Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by Hi.Def
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That's another thing too. Never cry in front of them. Even if you have to fake it and act strong just for that very moment. I knew this new guy who was constantly bullied for a few months but he always stood up for himself. As soon as the situation ended though he would go somewhere where he could be alone and no one could see him and cry. I was really surprised because he never backed down when someone bullied him.
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I never stood up for myself but I was the same way, in that I didn't cry in front of people who bullied me. I'd basically go blank (which they later bullied me for, too; I was the "slow girl" [though I was probably 10x smarter than those ****s put together ]), and then proceed to cry later.
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Originally posted by Onen
To me, once you get out of high school, bullying is no longer a factor. Almost all of the students in college give no ****s about an indvidual person enough to actually bully them.
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Bullying definitely happens in college, but it never has happened for me. Like you said, no one really gives enough of a **** about other people in college to bully them. They're more focused on themselves. Plus with a huge campus reputation is harder to achieve, so bullies become ex-bullies because they don't really have any incentive to do so.
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Member Since: 3/6/2011
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I think just about everyone has been bullied in some way in their lives.
In the 9th grade this guy and I broke up and he got all of his friends to throw change and bills at me when I walked by to imply that I was a prostitute. Ass. But he got his.
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Member Since: 12/31/2010
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Originally posted by CaliQueenSelena
I think just about everyone has been bullied in some way in their lives.
In the 9th grade this guy and I broke up and he got all of his friends to throw change and bills at me when I walked by to imply that I was a prostitute. Ass. But he got his.
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Member Since: 7/12/2010
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Originally posted by IfICannot Love♥
Oh, also, in my Art class today, the kid who pushed me down the stairs later that day ended up spraying this cleaning stuff all over my shirt. He also purposely got paint on my silk tie. I just wear ties all the time. Someone scalp that bitch... Though he has a buzz cut. Good luck gripping that.
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Defend yourself sweety. Pick up the biggest thing near you, & bust him in the head ..
at least thats what I would do.
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
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Originally posted by Orsay
I'm sure you went over there and talked it out like a civil human being before making peace and bringing harmony to the entire high school with the holy example you'd set
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Of course.
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Originally posted by inspiration4
That sounds epic Unfortunately, i've only seen the opposite of this happen. This ghetto girl used to bully this psuedo-badass girl (in class) everyday, until one day she decided to insult her in return. Wrong move. Ghetto girl pulled her out her chair and proceeded to slam her head into the whilte board all while the class went crazy and the teacher screamed her poor senile heart out. Bully won that fight
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Some bullies you just don't **** with because they actually beat your ass, but it is good that gerl stood up for herself. At least she got some fighting experience.
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Originally posted by DvnR
You exposed that closeted fool by snatching their lacefront?
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I didn't clock her tea right then but I clocked her face and her left eye.
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Member Since: 10/26/2010
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Originally posted by CaliQueenSelena
In the 9th grade this guy and I broke up and he got all of his friends to throw change and bills at me when I walked by to imply that I was a prostitute. Ass. But he got his.
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Guys at my school did this so much to girls it was ridiculous.
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Member Since: 5/14/2011
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Originally posted by DvnR
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Making light of a negative situation, I like it like it. Who gives a **** about bullying when you have a delicious yeasty pretzel in your hand
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Member Since: 6/20/2011
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Originally posted by JonnyϟLightning
Okay we get it you're SUPER COOL.
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There's always got to be one to misconstrue things.
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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
lol. I know exactly how you feel. But IDK if I really fit in with a lot of (out) gay guys, either.
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There just isn't enough around here for me to know if I "fit in" with them. Plus, I've never really been the type to "fit in" - and no Lightning this is not some egotistical, conceited ode to myself.
One thing that does piss me off though is when I'm at the same function as another gay teen and everyone expects us to hook up. Like wtf? Once again, I will restrain myself...this is a potential thread in its own right.
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Member Since: 12/31/2010
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Originally posted by IfICannot Love♥
Oh, also, in my Art class today, the kid who pushed me down the stairs later that day ended up spraying this cleaning stuff all over my shirt. He also purposely got paint on my silk tie. I just wear ties all the time. Someone scalp that bitch... Though he has a buzz cut. Good luck gripping that.
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I usually don't condone violence, but I would quite honestly push that guy down the stairs back, make sure he's going upstairs so he falls backwards. I ain't even gonna lie, this dude sounds like a Class A jackass who needs to be dealt with immediately.
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Member Since: 10/4/2010
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Originally posted by CaliQueenSelena
I think just about everyone has been bullied in some way in their lives.
In the 9th grade this guy and I broke up and he got all of his friends to throw change and bills at me when I walked by to imply that I was a prostitute. Ass. But he got his.
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GERL you TAKE your money and go buy yaself a skimpy ass top so as to attract mo' erect penuses fa yo puss and in turn make his ass more jealous than skyler when he sees a natural born woman.
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Member Since: 8/10/2010
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
I never stood up for myself but I was the same way, in that I didn't cry in front of people who bullied me. I'd basically go blank (which they later bullied me for, too; I was the "slow girl" [though I was probably 10x smarter than those ****s put together ]), and then proceed to cry later.
Bullying definitely happens in college, but it never has happened for me. Like you said, no one really gives enough of a **** about other people in college to bully them. They're more focused on themselves. Plus with a huge campus reputation is harder to achieve, so bullies become ex-bullies because they don't really have any incentive to do so.
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It hasnt happened to me either. I think also that I'm not opening myself up to the possibility of being bullied, I think showing signs of vunerability and weakness amongst people can get you into trouble anywhere you go. The worst thing I'm worried about being in college is parties. I like to drink, as do alot of people, but the thing about that is, in college, as a freshman, AND a girl, you are subject to the pressure of binge drinking/over drinking and that gives you a greater chance of being taking advantage of. I think bullying in college (in that instance) is very dangerous, and me being the type of person I am, is gonna try and avoid THAT as much as possible.
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Lunch in middle and high school is the absolute WORST. I almost always sat alone and then got picked on for that.
Ch...college was a SAVING GRACE.
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
I never stood up for myself but I was the same way, in that I didn't cry in front of people who bullied me. I'd basically go blank (which they later bullied me for, too; I was the "slow girl" [though I was probably 10x smarter than those ****s put together ]), and then proceed to cry later.
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You seem to have changed now. Bet you'd like to go back and give them a piece of your mind.
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Originally posted by CaliQueenSelena
I think just about everyone has been bullied in some way in their lives.
In the 9th grade this guy and I broke up and he got all of his friends to throw change and bills at me when I walked by to imply that I was a prostitute. Ass. But he got his.
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OMG, a mess.
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Member Since: 7/3/2011
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Originally posted by DvnR
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Yass sista! Grab that money and put the dip.
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Member Since: 12/31/2010
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Originally posted by Mole
Making light of a negative situation, I like it like it. Who gives a **** about bullying when you have a delicious yeasty pretzel in your hand
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Of course, and even ask them for a few more quarters so you can get a Sprite with that.
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Member Since: 6/20/2011
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Originally posted by Orsay
You trynna sound all popular
I concur with most of the post though. I'm a party animal and I love to party but high school parties are so centered around straight culture, as the humorous gay guy I always become the "life of the party" or whatever but it seems like everyone takes me as a joke, then once everyone's found a **** buddy I'm left standing alone like whaaa. Can't wait to go to gay clubs that's all I gotta say
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No, because of 1) being black in a mostly "white" area, 2) being gay 3) being born and growing up in a completely different/tougher area and 4) as a result of that having a more complex and outgoing personality - I will talk to everyone (I'm not snobby like that)....I know a lot of people. That doesn't mean they're all my friends.
I'm glad you "concur" though. Nice to know I'm not the only one who has been left dwindling on the sidelines while everyone shares a cocktail of STIs
Looking forward to smashing the gay scene in London on my 18th and getting my long-awaited 5-some with JLS.
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by DvnR
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Me, too! I would have picked it all up without a single implication of shame, and thank them afterwards.
Bye haters, kiss kiss, I'll see you later.
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Member Since: 3/6/2011
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Originally posted by DvnR
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Guuuuurl, it was tempting but I just couldn't.
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Member Since: 6/24/2011
Posts: 132
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Originally posted by CaliQueenSelena
I think just about everyone has been bullied in some way in their lives.
In the 9th grade this guy and I broke up and he got all of his friends to throw change and bills at me when I walked by to imply that I was a prostitute. Ass. But he got his.
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How dare these imbeciles
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Member Since: 5/14/2011
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I wish my bullies threw money at me
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